Family & Relationships - 13 October 2007

I don't need advice on my life, but want your opinion about your life.
What did you do to recover from them?
Thanks for answering! ;0)

2007-10-13 02:07:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not really worried about going to prison - free accommodation, food and clothes on the state (like that's anything new for me), but one thing is concerning me greatly.

The bull-dy*kes.

A girl like me is going to be seen as rich pickings for those hairy great lesbians they have in there - they're gonna think all their Christmases have come at once.

So, my question is, what can I do to make myself less attractive? I really don't want to spend the next year as someone's bi*tch.

Help.

2007-10-13 02:06:01 · 31 answers · asked by Ms Minger 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

because i enjoy my life but i am s single mother of 4 children one has passed away and now i have 3 once in a great while i chose to get drunk and forget my 2 jobs many times i get off my first job go straigh to my second(maybe the men are to blame eehh?) and my mothering ok i shall explain i work 6 days a week and many many hours do u find me selfish? of myself or my children please be honest!!!

2007-10-13 02:04:11 · 8 answers · asked by nikki 3 in Family

2007-10-13 02:00:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex had the nerve to end it even though I found out afterwards that he cheated on me by kissing someone else while we were out in a bar. He sneaked off to do it and said they were just talking. Anyway we were together for a year and a half and am finding it hard to move on. It's only been two weeks. We were going to stay friends but that didn't work out cos we ended up fighting and saying nasty things. I have turned into a stalker, sending lots of texts to him. He changed his number so now I text all his friends and family to try and get his new number. That is so bad I know and I am acting like the kind of person I hate but I just can't seem to let go even though I know it's totally over.
Any advice please!!!!!

2007-10-13 01:56:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Long story short: Im American, I met a guy from Bangladesh that works in a store close to my house. We had instant attraction for each other. After months of flirting we started casually going out. Whenever we seemed to get too close emotionally, he would pull away. I could tell he was hiding something. After 2 yrs. he decided to tell me he was getting married. I was heartbroken for months.

We would argue constantly whenever we talked because I had already fallen in love with him. In recent months he has been flirting with me & wanting to come back around. He came over my place 2 weeks ago & we both told the truth about our lives. Come to find out he has been married for the last 6 yrs. & his wife & children cant come to the US because of VISA issues. We made love that night because we both still have strong feelings towards each other. He's been giving me money & asking me to come around more but I dont want this. I love him soo much, and I dont know how to let go.

Please help!

2007-10-13 01:55:53 · 15 answers · asked by cinnamon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends Maddie,Kyeligh,Natileah,David,Henery,Dallas Played the meanest joke on me ever at one of the biggest football games ever. They paid this guy i like,Henery Yes one of my friends,1 dollar to ask me out and i said yes and right after words they told me it was a joke.I felt so bad after words and i found out he does like me and is going to ask me out after his girlfriend breaks up with him thanks need help soon

2007-10-13 01:50:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend will be away for three days in an outing with his class.. well there'll be girls.. but that's not really an issue except a little because there's this girl who is flirting with him (as he said) but I know him, and friends do know him as someone who wouldn't flirt back.

I don't know but I feel rather uneasy. I know it's not the right feeling, but it's because of the thought that he's out there doing something and having fun without me - and I couldn't help but feel sad, although I know that I shouldn't. And I am stuck here at home.

I plan to go shopping with my girl friend, but that's about it.. no overnights for little missy.. I know what he will text me, but not as much as like he does everyday, becuase I am pretty sure he'll get busy.

I know I am wrong about my feelings, but is it normal for a girlfriend to feel this way? Or maybe I am just too much and just insecure?

2007-10-13 01:47:05 · 7 answers · asked by juliette 4 in Singles & Dating

y should guy give up just cuz she thinks she's not interest

guy should try harder, give all 100 percent before quit

do u quit easily?

2007-10-13 01:43:51 · 3 answers · asked by mr1sparkle 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months
We live in different towns, but we see eachother every half term and summer holidays

When he is on his own he always says he loves me and he sings to me on the phone, and plays computer rugby while i just sit there and listen to it all.

but when he is with his mates, he speaks for abit about me watching rugby or this nd that, then i hear girls and boys in the background, then he says can u call me later, as soon as i say yes, he usually hangs up, or if i say ok love you, he says you 2 and then hangs up

it makes me suspicious abit

with girls in the background
he says he will never cheat on me but im very concerned cuz i love him so much
i'd never do anything to hurt him cuz he is my first serious boyfriend.
our parents dont know about us just yet cuz we're not ready to tell them.
But all i want is him to just come out and say it, weather his friends are there or not

i would but im never with my mates when im on the phone to him...

2007-10-13 01:43:39 · 15 answers · asked by Shadows && Regrets 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 01:37:23 · 8 answers · asked by timon_3 2 in Singles & Dating

• Grab her butt when you kiss her, it's a real turn on.

• Stay on the phone with her even if shes not saying anything.

• When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go then kiss her

• When she says she's ok dont believe it talk with her

* DON'T DUMP HER FOR SOMEONE ELSE ;;*

• remember her..because 10 yrs later she'll remember you

• Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her

• Call her before you sleep and after you wake up

• Treat her like she's all that matters to you.

• Tease her and let her tease you back.

• Stay up all night with her when she's sick.

• Watch her favorite movie with her.

* stick up for her even if you're friends don't like her

• Give her the world.

• Let her wear your clothes.

• When she's bored and sad, hang out with her.

* give her your jacket when she's cold

• Let her know she's important.

• Kiss her in the pouring rain.

• When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is;
"Who's *** am I kicking babe?"

2007-10-13 01:34:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are there signs to look for? Certain emotions you feel? What if it is a person you love very deeply? Have you ever had to walk away from a person you had loved more than anyone before them?

2007-10-13 01:32:48 · 15 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Singles & Dating

im not desperate, i just dont want to screw it up when i actually get a chance to kiss a girl

alright:
1. I've never kissed a girl (no 'peck' no thing, i have done nothing related to lips. and I am guessing this is because I'm nervous, but the most I have ever done is hug/hold hands. And I am a freshman in highschool, is this odd?
2. How do you kiss a girl then?
3. Alright, so I like this girl, she knows I like her, and she 'only sees me as a friend,' how do I change this perspective

2007-10-13 01:14:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that don't talk girlie talk

2007-10-13 01:07:12 · 9 answers · asked by Sea Eagle 6 in Friends

you can check my profile for the other questions but heres the basic idea of whats going on.
Husband spending alot of time on line, found out he was talking sexual and all to this other woman (after he told me that he didn't know her) I find out she is the district manager of the resturant that he manages, so he sees her atlest once a week.

After alot of thinking and wondering how to approach this since when ever I mention that I"m feeling insecure and all he gets defensive and hateful:(

Letter in details, please give me honest opinions on this. We have a nine year old together have only been married about 3 months and I'm pregnant (which has alot to do with my insecurities) with our second child.

2007-10-13 01:02:41 · 11 answers · asked by his wife 4 in Marriage & Divorce

She told me I had to give up beer. Said we couldn't afford it. A few days later, I caught her spending 65 bucks on make-up. When challenged, she said it was a vital expenditure in order to make herself pretty and attactive - just for me. I explained to her "that's what the beer was for".

I don't think she's coming back.

2007-10-13 00:48:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In this kind of society we have , we are sorrounded with all kinds of temptations; money, pleasures, riches of the world, beutiful ladies, and handsome guys, rich and famous.

2007-10-13 00:30:48 · 10 answers · asked by EDRO 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Or do you only flirt with the ones you like?

2007-10-13 00:25:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Married although its heading to a drainage, I met my old girlfreind at the store. I dearly love her very very much but she damped me after we discussed getting married, to another dude because I refused to give her oral sex. I will never do it under this blue sky. I disbelieved my eye as I turned to see who was holding my shoulders. She became emotional, shading tears and repeately apologizing they way she treated me. She went on and on and... I was her right man...divorced twice with a 7yrs daughter... and she would do anything to get me back even if I am married. I asked her why? and why now? She said I was straight forward person who understand what marriage was? Surprisingly she knows and she is a great freind to my wife as they attend the same church. i tried to brush her off as I asked where she worked and promised to pay a visit but without knowing she followed behind to my place and wanted to talk with me. I dodged her that I was late? Oh lord, why is he comming to me now?

2007-10-13 00:06:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it so hard for you to ask a girl out? what holds you back?Just curious :)

2007-10-13 00:00:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He doesn't drink everyday, but when he does he doesn't just have 2 or 3 beers, he drinks 10 to 12. I've printed material, but am afraid to give it to him. He's not abusive, but I have set him "off" in the past and now I keep things "cool". I have talked to him when he's sober and he tells me "your right" and he stops for a while and then it picks back up. How do I stop the cycle?

2007-10-13 00:00:11 · 11 answers · asked by Lina 3 in Marriage & Divorce