im not desperate, i just dont want to screw it up when i actually get a chance to kiss a girl
alright:
1. I've never kissed a girl (no 'peck' no thing, i have done nothing related to lips. and I am guessing this is because I'm nervous, but the most I have ever done is hug/hold hands. And I am a freshman in highschool, is this odd?
2. How do you kiss a girl then?
3. Alright, so I like this girl, she knows I like her, and she 'only sees me as a friend,' how do I change this perspective
2007-10-13 01:14:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just join your lips to hers and let the natural things take place ~~
2007-10-13 01:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. The good news is you're a freshman in high school, so you have time. And contrary to what your friends may be doing (or SAYING that they're doing), you're right on schedule when it comes to how fast you should be moving sexually. Don't rush it, because COLLEGE is right around the corner.
2. There's really no manual for how to kiss someone, as it runs completely on your emotions. Just think of someone that grosses you out - can you even imagine locking lips with them? I'm sure, however, if you think of the girl you mentioned below, your feelings are much different.
For me personally, I like to start off slow (soft kisses, no tongue). Add in some fingers through the hair, and a few "surprise" kisses on the neck, forehead, chin, WHEREVER, and things are bound to heat up from there! When they do heat up, the key is to not choke the girl. Pressing down too hard or slobbering all over her face are surefire ways to never get a second kiss.
3. Unfortunately, you can't change the way someone feels about you. You told her you liked her, which took guts, but just accept her friendship and move on. Trust me, I know the pains of wanting a friend, and it sucks, but you'll feel much better once you set your sights on other girls.
I know that's not what you want to hear, but unfortunately, that's just the way it is. In fact, something tells me that once you find another girl and actually start dating her, your girl "friend" will notice and possibly get jealous. People are just territorial like that.
Good luck!
2007-10-13 08:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by Bella 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well this is coming from a girl (me) in 8th grade, and I say that for #3, well, become a really good friend with her. One of her best friends. Let her know things about you. Trust her with some secrest. This will make her feel closer to you, and hopefully change her view on you to something better. As for the otehr 2 questions...I've only kissed on the cheek before so I'm no help there.
2007-10-13 08:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by tesalaremena 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, im a freshman too and i just got my first kiss (just a peck) the last day of eighth grade during a stupid dance game with a total man whore. so dont rush it. dont be desperate. it will come naturally. but if you really like this girl, and she knows how you feel about her, be sneaky. find an excuse. go to a halloween party and tip it off to someone to play a game that involves kissing or something. hopefully you'll get your chance. as for how to kiss a girl, im not really sure. hope you find this answer helpful.
xoxo. Gina
2007-10-13 08:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the act of the first kiss. if she has small lips and you have juicy lips then this should kinda of work, or both are juicy then that perfect or even small the whole point is the first contact . small peck at first , then slowly kiss the bottom lip kinda of taking into your mouth not fully just a Little if she know how to kiss then she'll follow trust it works it's all in the way you first contact. and to answer Ur last ? it's b/c of her peers or she might not like u that way.
2007-10-13 08:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what. You shouldn't worry so much about girls. You should let the right girl come and it will be natural that you guys will kiss. You will be able to kiss her because you will be comfortable with this person that it will become natural for you. Improve your status as a good friend, girls will like that, and the right one will come closer.
2007-10-13 08:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by wormy_000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just got to brave mate you have to make the first at the right time when shes giving you the signal to move in. Kissing for the first time don't use tongue or anything like that.
2007-10-13 08:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend is a friend only#
2007-10-13 08:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋