Family & Relationships - 13 October 2007

I love my boyfriend. I love my dreams of a future with him, but i trust him as far as i can throw him, that's not very far. How can u make a relationship work with no trust? He cheated on me in april and i didn't find out till august! He didn't even tell me i found out on his computer! When i found out i asked him and he was denying it and i told him looked through his computer and i know the truth. He finally admited to cheating on me his excuse was that we had only been dating a month and it was before he fell in love with me. How can i ever trust him again? Please help me..

2007-10-13 06:24:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

there is a older woman i work with...shes very mature and is very smart and straight forward...i asked her to lunch and she said yes...i know she thinks im cute...i asked her to chill outside of work and go to the movies and dinner she told me she will love to but has to find a babysitter and in the end couldnt make it....she been havin my number and she been tellin me she will call but never does...i told her to be serious with me and to tell me if i have a chance to be with her or not...she told me maybe...i asked her for her number and she told me her phone is messed up she showed it to me and it was off...she has 2 kids and has a busy schedule...i told her all i want to is fit atleast 1 hour to hang with her...and all she told me so u willing to come to manhattan for me...i told her for her i would....i know she is kind of interested because we flirt....is she testing me because im 21 and shes 28 and she thinks all i want is a piece of the pie???do i have a chance or not??

2007-10-13 06:24:01 · 3 answers · asked by kid233 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

or are you happy with the amount of friends you currently have?

2007-10-13 06:17:48 · 10 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Friends

OK, so there's this guy, and at the beginning of the school year (8th grade) I liked him. Then he turned into a jerk and he's really full of himself. But lately, he's been acting a little differently towards me. He looks directly at me and smiles and talks to me a lot more. He asks me a lot more questions. And the other day I said I was sad and he spend the rest of the class period trying to cheer me up. I don't want to like him again, but I think I might...but I'm not sure if he now likes me. Please help! This is very confusing.

How can I be sure if he likes ME or if I'm just liking HIM again?

2007-10-13 06:08:02 · 13 answers · asked by Emmyyy 2 in Friends

Are there any drawbacks, financially/taxes, cost of living,utilities,etc??

2007-10-13 06:05:10 · 2 answers · asked by alien 2 in Family

for example gossip girl...tv show...shes 14 and is kissing a guy that is in his 20s!! is it wrong or is it okay cuz its just acting?

2007-10-13 06:02:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 05:59:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think it's right or F*cked up.

My dad's friend was working delivering sheds and he walked out and saw a guy and his gf or wife and she was wearing a shirt(it said OSU across the boobs) and he looked and she had big boobs and he's like oh u like osu that's cool i also like them and her bf or husband got mad and started a fight with him because he looked at her boobs, but it's not like he said nice boobs he talked about what her shirt said.

I think it's F*cked up because if a girl wears a shirt that says something or flashes most of her boobs she should know and guys should know other guys r gonna look and obviously i think if u dont want someone looking at ur boobs then dont wear a shirt someone might read or flash ur boobs..

Do u agree or disagree

2007-10-13 05:56:51 · 7 answers · asked by Rayray 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-13 05:56:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm moving out. My parents are emotionally abusive, so I need to get away. I am financially stable, but my parents say I cannot take anything unless "I" paid for it...

I want to know what I can take, such as, Clothes, awards, dolls, books, etc...

I've heard if they give it to you, its yours, but they say the opposite...

What can I have?

2007-10-13 05:48:26 · 12 answers · asked by LisaFer 1 in Family

2007-10-13 05:44:25 · 12 answers · asked by lightning! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I approached a guy in a bank who was flirting with me (very very modestly! - see previous question) yesterday and he gave me his number as he didn't have his phone on him as he was obviously working. He was asking me a few questions like did I live in the area and how old I was etc. so he was obviously interested in me (right?!) and is gorgeous! and the last thing he said was to give him a ring. This was yesterday afternoon and I want to ring him so bad. My friend said to wait until the weekend is over would be leaving it too long. When should I ring him? I want to do it now! but wouldn't that look too eager? Please help! I've never been put in a position to ring a guy before...ever!!!

2007-10-13 05:34:34 · 11 answers · asked by snewell2222 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

They have everything they need and I've recently given flowers and photos.
Any ideas?

2007-10-13 05:33:38 · 4 answers · asked by moonbow 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

for convience or for love? if it's for convience explain, if it's for love tell me the difference.

2007-10-13 05:27:04 · 25 answers · asked by jeannieboop 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My mil compares everything about me to something she has. It is like she can't help herself. It is her business to annoy me. She compares my daughters B-Day to her wedding anniversary. It is like something always has to take place on a date that she is familiar with. I am getting tired of it, it is making it hard for me to stand being around her. Any suggestions?


All comments, please be respectful of this situation because only mature advice is accepted, only.

2007-10-13 05:26:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-13 05:26:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i like a girl a lot
she doesnt feel the same way
i still have hope for her

sometimes i try to find other girls, but they dont compare to her

the other girls i find are prettier than her, but i want her

if feel like if i get a gf i will just think about my crush

i dont think ill ever find another girl like her

she is so nice and i feel like other guys will be unfaithful to her

2007-10-13 05:25:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when courting or when trying to make up with their partner...
what is it about the snipped genitalia of plants that creates peace betweeen people?

2007-10-13 05:23:09 · 1 answers · asked by joe the man 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-13 05:17:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...a lot of things are soo wrong...?

2007-10-13 05:12:45 · 12 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-13 05:08:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 05:01:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy I met online is sending me mix signals so I told him I have no plan meeting him anymore. I think mix signals meaning not interested. His response makes me wonder: he said no plan meeting him anymore is fine (if that makes me happy), and he seriously wishes me luck. I feel using the word "seriously" sound sarcastic. I also noticed that he deleted my contact information all together. You think? If he is upset, why? Isn't he the one showed not interested?

2007-10-13 04:54:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

http://www.houseofbrides.com/product.php?productid=7597&cat=437&page=4
thats what i want for my wedding dress we are going to have the wedding on the beach in punta cana dominican republic (we live here as well)
because its going to be a beach wedding i didnt want anything to fancy or long, and if you know anyother wedding dresses in that style could you please link me to the web pages its on
thank you in advance

2007-10-13 04:54:25 · 26 answers · asked by Day Dreamer 4 in Weddings

I've been a rotten boyfriend, admittedly, and not faithful several times in the past. I've been trying to muster up the courage to ask her if she would marry me, but I'm afraid she would use it as an opportunity to turn me down--pay me back for some of the hurt. This has been an awful year for us, and I'm uncertain if proposing marriage would be considered by her as a sweet gesture, or terribly ironic--maybe even insulting. I don't want to ask if I'm just going to end up with my feelings hurt.

If you were in her shoes, what would your response be? Am I better off leaving this unsaid, or should I try to be bold and propose anyway, despite the risk to my feelings?

2007-10-13 04:52:30 · 18 answers · asked by Jack B, goodbye, Yahoo! 6 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend of one year just moved across country for her job. It has been one month and I have been working on the house and looking for a job and finally landed a great one. After one month of living together she says that she needs a break and wants me to move out. She gave me a bunch of reasons like I don't respect her stuff, she feels like she has lost her independence, and that she is just generally unhappy. So I moved out into her best friend's finance's place and find myself in a new town with a new job and am only here because of her, otherwise I would be elsewhere. I want to give her time to figure things out but at the same time don't want to lose contact with her and end the relationship if a break is really what she wants, but again she says that she doesn't know what she wants. So what is a guy to do? She still texts me about my new job and place and little things like that. Is there anything I can do to help salvage this relationship or just move on?

2007-10-13 04:47:43 · 5 answers · asked by poeticbbq 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy was caught by the teacher sending a note to her gf and he read it outloud, then he posted it on this bulliten so that anyone can come and read it!!! i hope he doesnt do that with MY note cause i will seriously CRY!!!

2007-10-13 04:47:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of about a month an a half now lives about 40 minutes away, and wouldnt be such a big deal if we werent so busy. we both go to school full time and have two part time jobs. just this past week i was upset because he and i didnt get to see each other and it seemed like we started to care less if that makes sense....until the other night, even though it wasnt in person we've found ways to be together in a physical way to bring us closer together. how come this is what always works?

2007-10-13 04:44:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im a huge fan and love Criss Angel soooo much. I want to marry him so badly. When ever hes in my dream, He doesn't really care about me or like me. He sort of ignores me. Why are my dreams like this? thanks

2007-10-13 04:42:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can I Get A Hug PLEASE???
Well,i have a little mentally challenged brother who i have been taking care of almost all my life(btw IM 16)and because of him i cant go out anywhere i dont have any friends and i have never dated.Today i was talking to my friend and she was telling me how this nice,handsome guy asked her out.Im not being mean but my"only" guy friend knows her and have told me that i look better than her but i dont say that about her i always tell him that she's pretty.Im NOT desperate or anything even if i did have a bf i wouldn't do anything wrong if you know what i mean but sometimes i feel really sad that i spent all this time,years in takingcare of my little brother and never found my happiness.....Can someone give me a hug...PLEASE : (

2007-10-13 04:41:26 · 33 answers · asked by BlossomMe 5 in Other - Family & Relationships