I'm moving out. My parents are emotionally abusive, so I need to get away. I am financially stable, but my parents say I cannot take anything unless "I" paid for it...
I want to know what I can take, such as, Clothes, awards, dolls, books, etc...
I've heard if they give it to you, its yours, but they say the opposite...
What can I have?
2007-10-13 05:48:26 · 12 answers · asked by LisaFer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I agree... if they have given it to you, it should be yours. They may not allow you to take the furniture, though. That's fine. Do you really want a bunch of stuff that has their nasty vibe on it?
You can sleep incredibly well on an AeroBed and may actually prefer it. Hit BigLots and get the plastic drawer storage chests for your small clothes, and hang up everything else when you get your own place. In the meantime, shop the garage and estate sales in your area. You will be surprised at what you will be able to find very cheaply.
The family is the first obstacles for most people to overcome.
Congratulations on starting your new life.
2007-10-13 07:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents doesn't love you, they would not give you anything.
They probably don't want you to leave, that's why they're saying that you can't take anything that you didn't pay for just to discourage you from moving.
2007-10-13 20:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by Stranger on the Bus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take whatever is yours. Whatever you own. Once they give it to you it is yours they cant take it back. Just pack up everything and go. Trust me Iknow I moved out when I turned 18 and I took everything that was in my room. Good Luck!
2007-10-13 06:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by hot_mustang_gurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who cares what u take just take it and run the **** out of your house and if they yell at u just leave them and get more things and leave again. when i moved i just took the things i need and they got mad at first but after they got over it. its up to u what u need to take. or if u want to be nice ask them nicely what can u take and if u want something that u cant get. just beg them 4 it or buy it with your own money.
i hope this helps u alot. and have fun moving. its very fun moving out of the parents house.
2007-10-13 05:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get the cops and go round get your stuff!! the cops will protect you from getting abuse and make sure you get ample time to sort thru the stuff you need!! whatever is yours take with you end of story, and never look back!! good luck to you in your new life, fair play to ya for takin the step and get away!!
2007-10-13 05:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say anything that is really all yours or like they said you have payed for just talk to them and see what they say i dont think its fair that they raised you and they wont even let you take something to get you started but anyway goodluck!=]
2007-10-13 05:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everything that belongs to you and is in your room. If you have any problems getting your stuff out, you can have a cop come by and watch to make sure they don't interfere in your moving your belongings out. Good luck :)
2007-10-13 05:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by LilMissCantbewrong 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
A better question would be-what do you want to take along?
2007-10-13 05:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by petra 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If they want to be awkward and are as bad as you say,let it go and start anew.
2007-10-13 05:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by rolo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NOTHING!JUST KIDDING. HOPE YOUR PARENTS AREN`T THAT PETTY. YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO TAKE YOUR STUFF. WHAT WOULD THEY DO WITH YOUR STUFF.????????
2007-10-13 05:55:17 · answer #10 · answered by seanny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋