i like a girl a lot
she doesnt feel the same way
i still have hope for her
sometimes i try to find other girls, but they dont compare to her
the other girls i find are prettier than her, but i want her
if feel like if i get a gf i will just think about my crush
i dont think ill ever find another girl like her
she is so nice and i feel like other guys will be unfaithful to her
2007-10-13 05:25:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Infatuation will make you feel just about anything for someone. It does go away in time. Try and expose yourself less and less to her, then your feelings will fade away.
2007-10-13 05:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by Psylence 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
u must let go of this girl because u r to attached to her meaning she is all u think about etc when u r attached to someone u can not live your life properly by letting her go u let pure energy come to your body and that results in a happy life. now your gona tell me that u are not miserable, but u are all u can think of is this ggirl she wont even get ut of your mind
you must tell your self that there will be other girls sure u dont see one now but whats the rush u have a whole life in frount of u and remember this love is a form of energy and it swirls and constantly changes her let me remind u liked sally in the 3rd grade this is {just a example} so u like sally and weeks later u dont the next year in 6th grade u like sam what i am trying to say is that the love for sally swirled and changed into the love for sam so let the girl go u will feel much better
P.s join sports other activities
2007-10-13 12:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by Unknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, it's normal. it's OK. I know you're feeling a little sad that she didn't have mutual feelings but TRUST ME, everything will go away. In time. You don't need to find another girlfriend straight away. You need time to think.
You'll be thinking about this girl for some time, so be prepared for that. You need to strong and have the resolve to understand that you STILL can be friends.
One fine day, who knows, you might be best friends with her.
Look, two of exes (of over 4 years) are my bestfriends today. I tell them every shi***y things that goes on with my life. And they're fab! Love them...
If you love her (or have a HUGE crush on her) let it go.
2007-10-13 12:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to change the way someone feels is difficult. Especially in the relationship department. I also have hopes for one particular girl. I can only be friendly and kind. Yet, as I do that I slowly watch her drift further and further away. In a nutshell....if it ain't meant to be it ain't meant to be.
2007-10-13 12:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Yeah; it comes on strong this love feeling, but like any other emotion it too will soon pass, not that you won't feel miserable,you will, but believe me you will surprise yourself to find that you have survived the disappointment.
*One thing you haven't told us is whether you have ever spoken to her.If all you are doing is wanting her from afar then you will be at it for a long time and for sure you will never get any results that way.
2007-10-13 12:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Source 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try this; offer to help her, smile at her if she stares, and gradually she will start feeling the same way as you feel for her. If you have chance, have a little happy natural chat.
2007-10-13 12:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking if the horrible feeling that comes with unrequited love goes away, yes. It eventually does.
Everyone ends up dealing with this at one point in their life. At the time, it seems like you'll never get over it.. but eventually, you move on or if you're lucky, the person will realize they're better off with you :P
2007-10-13 12:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by rona 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well hon... that is tough. the feelings wont go away unless you find someone else to have them for. be friends with her. watch her back but dont push the relationship and if she has any feelings for you then she will come to you, the more you chase her the more she will run. When you stop chaseing at that time is when she will come to you. xoxo kass-
2007-10-13 12:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by ~kass~ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she doesnt feel the same way about you, move on. Find someone who does want you. You can always go out with another girl and see if she gets jealous.
2007-10-13 12:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by mmcnum1fan 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You think too much. These are pretty shallow thoughts to be stressing about. Why don't you work more on how you can like yourself better, and maybe when you like yourself better, she will like you better. I mean, its like when you want support from others, you need to be able to support yourself first, right?
And yes, it goes away eventually. Its not like anything would actually haunt you every second for the rest of your life.
2007-10-13 12:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
YESSS....its so good to know there are still guys like u out there....
frankly she's lucky to know you...
its kinda creepy to just walk up to her and pour your heart out sooo just treat her like the person you know she is...
and if she's not the one...there are plenty of other nice girls out there.....The perfect girl for you may not show up at your doorstep...but keep looking..
she IS out there
and maybe that SHE is this girl your talking about...
give it time....feelings can change and grow..
just let them.....
2007-10-13 12:31:15 · answer #11 · answered by qifhgusrtyl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋