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Can I Get A Hug PLEASE???
Well,i have a little mentally challenged brother who i have been taking care of almost all my life(btw IM 16)and because of him i cant go out anywhere i dont have any friends and i have never dated.Today i was talking to my friend and she was telling me how this nice,handsome guy asked her out.Im not being mean but my"only" guy friend knows her and have told me that i look better than her but i dont say that about her i always tell him that she's pretty.Im NOT desperate or anything even if i did have a bf i wouldn't do anything wrong if you know what i mean but sometimes i feel really sad that i spent all this time,years in takingcare of my little brother and never found my happiness.....Can someone give me a hug...PLEASE : (

2007-10-13 04:41:26 · 33 answers · asked by BlossomMe 5 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

33 answers

youve been throught alot you need mor ethan one HUG how about HUG HUG HUG HUG HUG ( 5 of them )

2007-10-13 04:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

*hug*

not that that helps, but...
you shouldnt feel depressed about this though, there will be time later to have a serious relationship. and if you need one now, try to make at least a little bit of time. work out a deal with your parents so you dont have to look after your brother constantly, or maybe hire someone. they likely wont understand the situation, so that might not work, but you can always try.

2007-10-13 04:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by Evan 6 · 0 0

What you have taken upon yourself is a huge responsability, Surely he has a carer? Apart from you, it is important that you have a social life too. See if you can arrange for someone to look after him one evening a week. No one your age should have that kind of responsability, try and arrange some time out to do something you enjoy and contact social services, you may be entitled to a secondary carers allowance. use the internet to get in touch with friends,

p.s HUGS!!!!

Amy xxx

2007-10-13 04:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Explain to your mother that you need some time for yourself and independance. Give her some reasons why you should go out with friends and why it would be good. You can also contact a nanny service or a familt memeber that can help you take care of your brother while your out and let your mom know that you found all of that info yourself, cause your capable...
GOOD LUCK!!

2007-10-13 04:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Don't blame your brother on this.
Your parents are responsible for him.
You are a member of the family and have to babysit him sometimes, but now that you are getting older, you will have to explain to your parents that Friday night and/or Saturday night must be your's to have time to go out on a date or go be with your girlfriends.

2007-10-13 04:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by Yam King 7 7 · 0 0

that is so nice of you. But you need sometime off. ever try for a babysitter? or one of your good friends PARENTS! it sounds like you really care for ur brother but i think its your turn to catch up on things.

P.S ill give u a hug lol

2007-10-13 04:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by Saruhhhh 2 · 0 0

Here is a HUGE hug for you. Your doing an admirable thing, and don't worry you will one day be rewarded for the kindness that you show you're brother.

2007-10-13 04:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Here is your hug!. You are a wonderful sister to do what you do and there is a special place in heaven for people like you. You will find happiness. Hang in there.

2007-10-13 04:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0 0

Aaww.*Hug*. I'm 15 and feel like this too.Not that I have a little bro or anything, but just...feel like i'm left out of it all.Maybe..appreciate the friends you DO have a bit more :)

2007-10-13 04:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

HUG HUG HUG HUG Sweetheart!
If there is anything even remotely resembling karma, you will be well rewarded for your loving sacrifices!

2007-10-13 05:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by Incognito 7 · 0 0

if you are sixteen... stop with the ALL MY LIFE syndrome you have yet to begin to live. if you want to get out/get a break from your brother....where are the parents. and you can contact a respite facility to have someone come in to give you a break. don't rush life girl.

2007-10-13 04:50:54 · answer #11 · answered by benejueves 6 · 0 0

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