can you make a relationship work with out trust?

Question

I love my boyfriend. I love my dreams of a future with him, but i trust him as far as i can throw him, that's not very far. How can u make a relationship work with no trust? He cheated on me in april and i didn't find out till august! He didn't even tell me i found out on his computer! When i found out i asked him and he was denying it and i told him looked through his computer and i know the truth. He finally admited to cheating on me his excuse was that we had only been dating a month and it was before he fell in love with me. How can i ever trust him again? Please help me..

Answer 1

What is a relationship without trust?

Answer 2

love means alot of things between both of u, the most imprtant thing is each one of u to trust the other, and without the trust no one can cmplte, but u have to be sure that he is tellin the trueth or not by testing him by time, but if he doesnt love u he wont ever be honest with u.
P.S: 99% from guys are not worth to be trusted and am one of them

Answer 3

"I love my dreams of a future with him"
Sounds more like you are into your image of the relationship not the reality. Relationships need trust fidelity and commitment on both sides.

Answer 4

im in the same boat as u but mine cheated on me ayear ago and then brok eup with me and went to her and was cheatin on her with me, messed up i know.. but now hes back with me and i wanna trust him so bad and i try really hard to trust him. its not an easy thing to do, I know but if he really loves you then he wont do it again. and they worst part withme and my boy is he knows im so in love with him and im not to sure thats a good thing.but in my away me and him r different from u and ur boy cuz me andhim have been on and off for 4 years now.