Me and my girlfriend of one year just moved across country for her job. It has been one month and I have been working on the house and looking for a job and finally landed a great one. After one month of living together she says that she needs a break and wants me to move out. She gave me a bunch of reasons like I don't respect her stuff, she feels like she has lost her independence, and that she is just generally unhappy. So I moved out into her best friend's finance's place and find myself in a new town with a new job and am only here because of her, otherwise I would be elsewhere. I want to give her time to figure things out but at the same time don't want to lose contact with her and end the relationship if a break is really what she wants, but again she says that she doesn't know what she wants. So what is a guy to do? She still texts me about my new job and place and little things like that. Is there anything I can do to help salvage this relationship or just move on?
2007-10-13 04:47:43 · 5 answers · asked by poeticbbq 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like you should give both yourself and her some time... just relax and see how things go... it will obviously be under a different set of rules so prepare yourself for the possibilities that might arise. It seems as if you have every-ones best interest at heart and that is wonderful. Enjoy your new job and explore your new surroundings. Don't limit yourself here... no tunnel vision... there are lots of possibilities!
2007-10-13 05:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she used you to work on the house and give her money. If she's that quick to put you out, then she wasn't in to you in the first place. Lose the phone number and get on with your life. You can do a lot better by yourself!
2007-10-13 04:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make my life, as if she was not going to be in it. She is playing games, and wants to keep you around just in case. You have helped her get started, and now she wants to do it on her own. She will call you when it all falls through and she needs something familar. She is doing what makes her happy, and that is what you need to do. If staying there is good, then stay, or go back home.
2007-10-13 05:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would straight out ask her if there is a chance for you guys to get back together and if she says no then move on and if she can't commit to giving you an answer than maybe you should move on.
2007-10-13 04:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a month. Tell her how happy you are & that you have a heap of new friends. THAT WILL make her jelous & she will want you back.
2007-10-13 04:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by Gesus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋