Are there signs to look for? Certain emotions you feel? What if it is a person you love very deeply? Have you ever had to walk away from a person you had loved more than anyone before them?
2007-10-13 01:32:48 · 15 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you see the same pattern of bad scenes over and over, when you come to realize that it really is not going to get any better unless YOU do something. Often that something is to move out.
Yes, I've done it. I walked away from my third husband saying, "You are not going to grow up until you no longer have me here playing Mommy." And I was right. I saw him a couple of months later, and he had been going to 12-step meetings regularly. He described himself proudly as "clean and sober." Since he clearly was not referring to his person or his clothing when he said "clean," I can only assume he meant no drugs or alcohol. Believe me, that was a BIG improvement! But by that time I was with My Steve, so all I could do (and all I wanted to do, really) was give him a hug and wish him well.
2007-10-13 02:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by auntb93 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
When both of you are not communicating constantly it is a clear sign.
Also when you are feeling ofr each other again.
When both of you disagree unsually it is also a sign. But the cure for this is , if there is love from one side either the boy or the girl thinks can works out again.
So if u trully love the person then make some investment to it that is time, money, emotional, personally (that is personal interest must be there).
thanks
I had an experience and it works
2007-10-13 02:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by daniel65ng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol. I was gonna answer the exact same thing bribri did. The fact is, u need to be confident and believe in a relationship. If you start having doubts, things arent looking well unless both of u are willing to compromise and work it out together. Whether u love this person a lot or not, its still the same case. For the last question, sometimes ull just have to. Otherwise, it might be destructive in the long run. Not all things work out the way we want to. Harsh reality. All the best you =)
2007-10-13 01:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think more then signs, one starts getting the feeling that the other person just isn't there. This is especially noticeable when you look in their eyes and they no longer hold your gaze. And yes I did have to walk away from someone I thought I loved deeply at the time. It was the hardest thing to do but ultimately correct and positive for both of us.
2007-10-13 01:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by phovisi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When the things he wants is vastly different from what you want.
For e.g you want to get married, have 2 1/2 kids and he thinks that marriage can wait till 10 years later.
When the religions are very different and either one of the religion is intolerant of other religions. If both persons have religions that are tolerant of other religions its fine.
In general, it's a feeling. Because the right ONE will always be able to defuse bad feelings and somehow he can make everything alright.
2007-10-13 01:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be around them for an extended period of time, maybe a month. And yes, this can be the person you have loved the most. Happens to a couple every day.
2007-10-13 06:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by Shay V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
when you don"t look forward to seeing the other person, and if you have a sexual relationship and you don"t or he doesn"t have any interest in making love there is an old saying and i have found it to be spot on..
"when its dead in the bedroom for no good reason, its over"
hope that answers your question..
good luck Adrian
2007-10-13 02:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Adrian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u feel it is not going to work then u need to let it go don't try and hold on to something that is not there. and yes i have let go of people that i loved. but if u r not receiving the same why r u hanging in there. time heals all wounds even the heart
2007-10-13 01:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by playinthegame 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay, when neither of you are talking to eachother, and you don't feel the absolute need or want to fix it. or maybe that you do, and you try and try, but it isn't goin to be worth it in the long run... it is time to maybe stop, but wait a while... this just happened to me. don't let go of the ones you love most, but make sure he loves you too.
2007-10-13 01:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anna 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you start to question the relationship, it's definitely not going to work.
2007-10-13 01:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by Bri Bri 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋