Family & Relationships - 13 October 2007

2007-10-13 12:54:14 · 9 answers · asked by puppy4_stitch 1 in Friends

me and my friends were talking about good exercises and my friend told me that sex was a good ab and leg work out is this true. i wouldn't know because i'm a virgin.

2007-10-13 12:52:30 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I need help. I have a problem. I'm not in love with my husband anymore. I had problems with him while we where engage and I'm having again now. When we first met it was like love at first srung. Then he got a job and it resolve around women. Then the car came and being that his job finish late, he would sometime take me some of the ladies. Things got crazy and I assume he was cheating - of course he said no- then a couple month after, he had a girl best friend. We finally broke up and I don't know why I excepted him back but I did and we moved to another country to start another life. Now we're here and we got married + have a baby. We didn't much when we started out, and when we got married we did it quitely. No rings were bought. Its going to be 2 yr in jan. and I.m sick and tired of him. He's rude and hardly helps out with the baby.
He come home at 12 am after work and goes straight onto the computer until 5 in the morning and expect we to get up after a days work o

2007-10-13 12:48:56 · 18 answers · asked by Sassy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently broke up with my finace. We're still talking and we still want to be friends. She's been talking about how much she misses the sex and wants to be bed buddies. And yes, the sex was amazing, and honestly, I miss it too. So I need an opinion...would it be a good idea to be bed buddies? She's coming up soon to pick some of her stuff up, and said she'd like to screw around a bit "for old-times sake." Suggestions? should I have some fun or pass it up? Thanks!

2007-10-13 12:47:22 · 6 answers · asked by Jeff P 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my parents' 25th anniversery sucked balls.. I would like to do something AMAZING! So far, my ideas are for the party:

1.) Fashion Show
2.) having another wedding


any other ideas?

2007-10-13 12:45:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-13 12:42:38 · 17 answers · asked by emily w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend whose wanted to file for a divorce to her husband. I was thinking if her decision is right. They were 20 years appart in ages. She married the guy when she was 21, and shes aware that theyre not going to have kids as he have been fixed. Now that she realized that she wanted to have a kids, after a few years of being married, shes thinking about a divorce to find another man and have kids. She said shes not happy and wasnt sure if she still love him, the hubby was really really nice to her, he didnt do anything to her, its just he cant give her a kid so I feel sorry for her hubby as he is old now and needs a companion, I just found out last week that he needs a lot of surgery and the house that theyre living wasnt him anymore, it will be my friends house after the divorce. He used to be the primary financial before, now that my friend is divorcing him, he needs to move out after the divorce. Is divorcing him is the right soulution?just wanna hear a opinion. thanks.

2007-10-13 12:36:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-13 12:34:16 · 2 answers · asked by dasboot0731 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been married for four years,but recently a friend advised us to marry in church because we are not properly married.Don't know what to do?

2007-10-13 12:33:54 · 13 answers · asked by misslee 1 in Weddings

My son is 8mnths. His father is in prison. I received a letter from him in the mail stating that he had something to tell me, he has a 4mth old daughter. He went to prison in October and the young lady found out she was pregnant in December(even though this doesn't matter). The young lady doesn't even know his last name but decided to have his child!!! I need advice!!! What would you do if this was you??

2007-10-13 12:33:22 · 25 answers · asked by SUE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He doesn't respond well to the direct approach. We have been together for 12 years, married for 5. At first he said he didn't want kids (he also said he didn't want to get married - that changed). In the last couple years he has softened a little, but still says "maybe" when he's 36 - I'll be 36 then too (3 years away) and I'm concerned about waiting too long - and then he goes back to no, not sure again - arrgh. Anytime I bring it up though, he gets his back up. So I decided to play it cool and totally drop the subject, even to the point of making him think I've totally given up on it. So now... I'm thinking I could subtely pass on information that would make him think about it without any pressure. Any ideas? Short of getting him drunk and forgetting the birth control ;)

2007-10-13 12:33:20 · 9 answers · asked by Studious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

even in front of his ex wife. He never does. He just lets them. I try to correct them but it does no good because there is no reinforcement from a parent. This sounds like I am wimpy, I am not...I am careful not to upset the balance of things and have a hostile environment in my home. What would make a husband not demand respect for the woman he loves???? I really don't get it and feel like idiot for being in this position. I am getting ready to walk....however all options haven't been exhausted.....

2007-10-13 12:31:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this women last week and we got along good. I ran into her a few days later. Talked and every thing went well. (we didn't exchange phone numbers). So she works a block away from my house I went to her work and asked if she would like to go to lunch one day. She said yes. So, we arranged for a day and I went and she was in a "confrence call" so I left my phone number and she never called. It has been 2 days. Should I go back to her work send flowers or just leave it alone?? A womans piont of view would be thankful. Is she interested??

2007-10-13 12:30:13 · 15 answers · asked by Jeffrey T 1 in Singles & Dating

If so, where? and why?

2007-10-13 12:30:07 · 5 answers · asked by narcissexual 2 in Singles & Dating

Mr. X marries Miss. Y. Y brings $$$ ( money )/ gold with her. Y refuses to work or be a traditional wife i.e cook/clean/look after children. Y uses the money she brings to invest in assets in her name. Y expects X to earn all the money and provide for all her needs, and her needs can be quite lavish. Y feels she is rich and hence has the god given right to a lavish life style paid for by her husband X.

Please analyze and give advice to Mr. X and Miss. Y.

2007-10-13 12:30:01 · 12 answers · asked by Pramod R 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This is somewhat of a difficult topic to put into words without sounding braggadocios. Here it is: I'm pushing 20 and I have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, never even been hugged in a romantic way! I'm very intelligent, witty, personable and beautiful (I swear I'm modest, but I figure to get the best advice I need to lay out all the facts). I have been called "drop-dead gorgeous," "absolutely beautiful," "genius," and "hilarious." Please bear with me, I know I'm sounding obnoxious, but I really need help. Anyway the problem is that I'm the girl that the guys admire, but never ask out. I've been told that I'm really intimidating, but I can't go anywhere without getting hit on or checked out. When I find a nice guy who is actually interested in me, I inadvertently act uninterested, therefore causing him to say to himself "the hell with her!" I have horribly low self confidence, and it's getting to the point where I'm afraid I can't change that. How can I be more confident?

2007-10-13 12:25:26 · 49 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Singles & Dating

This is a follow up to my last question that I asked earlier:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AttvB3eMnTiu5o2g2zJ0QEfsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071013102955AAB8UDG

I was in a very long-term, deeply loving and committed physical & emotional relationship with a woman.

She broke it off with me but was afraid or unwilling to do so in person or by telephone.

She sent an e-mail saying she was breaking up with me, will never see me again but wouldn't say what the circumstances or reasons were for the breakup. This left me without a clue and with the definite impression that I will never be allowed to know why she left.

I have gone through an immense amount of personal pain and anguish over this. My heart is broken.

I said I would not bother her. But, despite that, should I try and contact her? Or never speak to her again?

What would you do?

And no. I am not a stalker or violent.

Explain your answer..

2007-10-13 12:21:52 · 11 answers · asked by Softtouchmale 7 in Singles & Dating

So me and this girl I like got into a fight about three weeks ago and we just made ammends. We were talking on AIM a little bit (she messaged me) and I brought it up. She apologized and I apologized and everything's cool now. I'm just wondering, since I don't really talk to her that often, what I should talk to her about when I see her. I'm gonna see her tonight at Applebee's with a group of friends from church, and usually we don't really talk, but I want to talk with her a bit tonight. What's a good topic, and what can I say without making her feel uncomfortable?

2007-10-13 12:21:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 12:16:52 · 12 answers · asked by Miss T 2 in Singles & Dating

this is probably gonna sound super immature,
but i was wondering if i could get a guys advice on
"does he like me"?
there's this guy that i go to highschool with and i'm totally into him, my guy friend (not boyfriend) thinks that he likes me but i was wondering if he would think it was weird if i made the first move?
would he have already asked me out if he liked me?
thanx!

2007-10-13 12:15:35 · 7 answers · asked by princess taylor 2 in Singles & Dating

defined "apollo's belt" on a female

http://i15.tinypic.com/660zfyb.jpg

2007-10-13 12:12:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

http://www.flickr.com/photos/10002474@N06/

2007-10-13 12:09:39 · 19 answers · asked by mrellis08 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well me and this guy have been together for about 1 month and a half already and well he doesnt talk to me at school or n e thing he waits until like nine pm to call me at school when i pass him he just walks right pass me and says nothing when ever he is near his friends he never talks to me i started crying at school bc my grandpa is suffering from cancer and all he did was stare at me not even comfront me or n e thing he never talks to me idk wat to do now he says he luves me and cares about me alot but he ignores me at school wat do i do

2007-10-13 12:08:54 · 16 answers · asked by tiki 1 in Singles & Dating

Let´s say NO to marriage.

2007-10-13 12:01:22 · 26 answers · asked by Cumram 4 in Weddings

He doesn't open up and share himself with me. He is a private person. My question is what can I do from my side to help him open up. I am very open and sharing by nature, so I surely setting an example, but nothing changes. When I ask him questions, his answers are short. He does not describe, or volunteer information unless asked. With most men, I have not had that problem.

Plus, his career is in software, which I am an alien to, nor have any aptitude for. I feel really frustrated.

Individually speaking, what would help you open up more?

Thanks for your perspective guys.

2007-10-13 11:59:07 · 3 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

I just need some advise how can I say this I love this girl will now this woman we knew each other since we was kids and we had this big fight cause I got over jealous cause she asked me out and I got jealous cause she went out with this other guy and we both did lots of bad things to each other and we didn't see each other for faw years and when we did we couldn't stop looking at each other . anyway I'm still so mad with her but behide that I still got feelings for her I love her but now I feel so alone and I feel so heartbroken and I been thinking my love for her is alot more then me being mad at her I would like to shout at her but if someone hurt her i would go after them. what should I do deep down my heart feels like if its bleeding, I just want to say to her I still love you and i want to look into her eyes should I be ashame of myself for still loving her.we both are 23 i think about her everday. my head tells me to leave her but my heart tells me i got feelings for her

2007-10-13 11:53:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when you lost your virginity?

if theres an interesting story ud be willing to share...go head!

2007-10-13 11:51:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok. I'm in an 80's musical at school. I'm a mean girl in it. To cut it short, there was a dress i was going to wear in it which i REALLY love but now one of the many costume people has said I can't wear it and I have to wear this ugly black one. The thing is she can't give proper reasons why and I know its just cos she doesn't like me and a little bit of power went to her head. So i tried talking to the other costume people and they said the'd talk to her , BUT NOTHING HAS HAPPENED! I dnt wanna seem like i'm nagging though. So what should I do. If I told my teacher would he think Im just being an idiot?

2007-10-13 11:49:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

there's this girl in grade 12 and im in grade 10 i wanted to get to know her and i dont know any of her friends. So i decided to talk to her on nexopia which is kinda like myspace and facebook and well she read my msg n looked at my page but didnt answer back so i sent her another msg saying "come on now u look at my page but dont say anything back, i was just giving you a compliment" and then she said "i meant to say thanks." then after i asked i asked her if it was okay that i was talking to her and she said i dont have a problem with it. then after i told her my name and i asked for hers but again she read the msg but didnt answer back....what does this tell you guys? do you think shes interested at all? please help

2007-10-13 11:45:14 · 16 answers · asked by ***KREEM YUNG*** 1 in Singles & Dating

ok there is this guy @ my school that i no likes me b/c he is always flirting w/ me & always joking around to make me laugh. there is just 1 problem - he's kinda shy when it comes to girls. i don't want to ask him b/c i'm afraid he'll say no b/c he's too shy to say yes. how do i get him to be comfortable around me to ask me out? i really like him and don't just want to blow over it. PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-10-13 11:44:12 · 2 answers · asked by cheerchick! 2 in Singles & Dating