Mr. X marries Miss. Y. Y brings $$$ ( money )/ gold with her. Y refuses to work or be a traditional wife i.e cook/clean/look after children. Y uses the money she brings to invest in assets in her name. Y expects X to earn all the money and provide for all her needs, and her needs can be quite lavish. Y feels she is rich and hence has the god given right to a lavish life style paid for by her husband X.
Please analyze and give advice to Mr. X and Miss. Y.
2007-10-13 12:30:01 · 12 answers · asked by Pramod R 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok, I've heard of the man bringing home the bacon , but the woman should be taking care of trhe homestead. Other wise how else is she earning her keep, If she is'nt willing to do her job at home "housewife" then she should get a job as well, to pay her way, 50/50 right. If she is'nt willing to get a job either, well she better find other means to keep up her lifestyle. Send her packin down that yellow brick road, she'll find out it is'nt so bright at the end by yourself. We all need each other to get through life. And if she expects to have a lavish lifestyle, she needs to help out, and do her job. In the court systems they say everything is 50/50 until you aren't holding up your end. till death do you part.
2007-10-13 13:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by The G-Man 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, X should have known this this going into the marriage and can only ask to have assets put in both names. This will tell him about equality in the relationship. Next, he should cut back on those lavish expenses, if she wants them, let her pay for them. What would happen if he lost his job, would she leave him?
One cannot help but feel that this fellow is a chump and wonder why he stays?
2007-10-14 07:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by liorio1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mrs. Y is going to have to grow up. it's ok to have nice things, but if she's not going to work, or be a traditional wife, then she is taking full advantage of mr. X. Mr. X is going to get worn out very quickly and it's not going to be happy. at all. therefore, Mr. X should have a talk with Mrs. Y and get it sorted out. if Mrs. Y's lifestyle gets too lavish; should there be an emergency, the XY's are not going to have any money to resort to.
if mrs.Y doesnt want to comply, then Mr. X should think very hard as to why he married her, and if it's worth supplying her lavish demands.
2007-10-13 19:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by thunder 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are both getting what they want out of the relationship? Then I don't see a problem. After all, it's their relationship.
If one or both of them is not getting what they want out of the relationship and they have honestly tried to make changes, but have been unsuccessful and believe that they will continue to be unsuccessful, then the relationship may have to dissolve.
Hint: It ain't going to be pretty.
2007-10-13 19:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by Dan H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sooner MrX gets out of it....better for him...Miss y is acting too pricey for no merit of her own...As Money is here today gone tomorrow stuff....Besides Marriages are not all about money and role settings...
2007-10-15 02:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by v j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
X needs to put his foot down and Y needs to remember realise that she is married and not the singleton her assets claim her to be
2007-10-13 19:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mello Kello 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree, X is a fool and needs to leave.
Y sounds WAAAY too high maintenance, and unless she is EXXXXTREMELY attractive, no woman should be that damn demanding.
2007-10-13 20:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by jezyka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well Y seems to be a very selfish and snotty person. In god's eyes, you are the right person here.
2007-10-13 21:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr X is a fool and should leave.
2007-10-13 19:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
cut off all the $$$ and see if Y stays.
2007-10-13 19:38:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋