I recently broke up with my finace. We're still talking and we still want to be friends. She's been talking about how much she misses the sex and wants to be bed buddies. And yes, the sex was amazing, and honestly, I miss it too. So I need an opinion...would it be a good idea to be bed buddies? She's coming up soon to pick some of her stuff up, and said she'd like to screw around a bit "for old-times sake." Suggestions? should I have some fun or pass it up? Thanks!
2007-10-13 12:47:22 · 6 answers · asked by Jeff P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm afraid I'd have to turn her down, dude. If you guys are moving on, then move on - don't live in the past. Don't do stuff just "for old-times sake."
2007-10-13 12:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by JD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
interesting...you said you broke it off with her. i would have to know more details. but anywho, you both enjoy having sex together, and you are still talking and you still want to be friends. why don't you just get back together or get married, like you planned? LOL! if you both can handle that type of relating without either of you getting hurt, then for it. you have familiarity on your side. you don't have to worry about going out to find someone to have sex with and perhaps getting turned down. you say she's coming soon to pick up some of her stuff...is she leaving some or is she picking it all up? do you two want to be together or do you feel like you're rushing into marriage, hence the breakup? you want fun, she wants fun...sounds like a a plan. maybe you both need your space from one another, huh? do you want to date others? what do you want from each other? that's one of the questions you need to be asking each other. make it clear, put it on the table. that way you'll be real clear about where the relationship is really heading. i wish you guys all the best
2007-10-13 12:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by thecatmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you break up with her,there must have been a reason?in my opinion if you have a good enough reason to break up then you got a good reason to say no.if you didn't"have a good reason to break up then she is probably trying to use the sex to get you back.witch is very immature of both of you
2007-10-13 12:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by br549242 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pass it up. Damn, that girl's sleazy. :/ Find a NEW girl to 'screw around' with and then rub it in her cheap face. xD You deserve more respect than that.
2007-10-13 12:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i does no longer he's displaying loss of comprehend for you, he would have you ever and yet another lady to, he's in basic terms eager to hold onto you till he unearths somebody else, you would be his piece of butt. in basic terms my opinion
2016-12-29 08:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on it is a ploy to get you back and if it was bad enought to break it off before it is bad enought to leave a lone.
2007-10-13 13:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by tomsawer28501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋