2007-10-13 12:42:38 · 17 answers · asked by emily w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some women know for sure and some don't. it all depends how different the husband acts, if he changes his behavior or not, his sexual drive, his time schedule etc...
some men are true virtuosos to be able to have both relationships at a time and some succumb to their lies and get caught right away.
I hope it does not ever happen to you, having an unfaithful husband is very sad and often the final crisis of a relationship. I have many friends who endured these chapters and most ended in divorce.
good luck
2007-10-13 12:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by GreenEyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not always, at least at first. Later on their are other clues: unexplained absences, whispered conversations, lack of or a sudden burst of interest in sex, avoiding talking about things....
The best clue is gut instinct. Women seem to sense when something is not right. If you are the woman concerned, just ask your husband. The sooner you know the sooner you can work out how to deal with it. The not knowing is worse than the knowing in the long term.
2007-10-13 12:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u will always know when something is not quite right, u will always be able to feel that there are troubles, but unfortunately if your spouse has never cheated before u won't be able to put your finger on the real problem. your intuition will alert u that there is something u need to deal with but most of the time when couples are fighting the last thing u want to do is communicate with them or try to work it out. it feel like a feeling of doom, and u don't know what it is or why u are feeling so troubled.
2007-10-13 12:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much time the woman has to invest in knowing her husband's whereabouts. A women that is a sucessful career woman and who isn't home much, might have a harder time figuring it out; a stay at home house wife who has a lot of time on her hands pretty much knows when her husband blinks differently.
2007-10-13 13:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by Brittney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most of the times like 95% of us do know. I think some women know but they choose to deny it and just keep their one eye close. Sadly for some women, they thought that is love. I mean they thought that is how they love their husband. As for me, no way I am going to be in a relationship like that.
2007-10-13 13:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that they have those instincts but are in denial and don't want to believe it. Wives always know when something is wrong because they pay attention to everything their husbands do. He may not know she suspects anything because she doesn't say anything but most of the time they know
2007-10-13 12:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my personal experience with women.. 95% of the time..
i didnt say 100% as when women are cheating too.. they dont care that time whether hubby is cheating or whatever ...
2007-10-13 12:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by the_indian_devil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. I trusted my ex so much I defended him too marriage counselors, divorce lawyers, cpas, friends, etc. I didn't find out until 3 months after our separation through the grapevine that his girlfriend was 3 months pregnant.....
2007-10-13 17:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by coolmommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of time. It's just a woman thing.
2007-10-13 12:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by Diva 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course! Im 9, I have a boyfriend and Im smelling something fishey with my bff and my bf
2007-10-13 13:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋