I just need some advise how can I say this I love this girl will now this woman we knew each other since we was kids and we had this big fight cause I got over jealous cause she asked me out and I got jealous cause she went out with this other guy and we both did lots of bad things to each other and we didn't see each other for faw years and when we did we couldn't stop looking at each other . anyway I'm still so mad with her but behide that I still got feelings for her I love her but now I feel so alone and I feel so heartbroken and I been thinking my love for her is alot more then me being mad at her I would like to shout at her but if someone hurt her i would go after them. what should I do deep down my heart feels like if its bleeding, I just want to say to her I still love you and i want to look into her eyes should I be ashame of myself for still loving her.we both are 23 i think about her everday. my head tells me to leave her but my heart tells me i got feelings for her
2007-10-13 11:53:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it really hurts me when I think about her my heart beat fast when we come eye to eye. and sometimes I feel like to cry and yeah she done wrong but you know what i love her so I forgive her is it so wrong what i'm doing. I know i should just drop it and move on but my heart won't let me my head is telling to but my heart isn't , i'm crazy about her all i think about is her what should I say if we ever met up how can I tell her i still love her no matter what she done
2007-10-13 11:55:04 · update #1
Tell her how you feel and if she has feelings for you, she will get back together with you. But if she doesn't want to, then just move on with yoour life. There are other girls out there.
2007-10-13 12:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine&smiles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell her or show her everything you wrote on here. That would be like giving her a free pass to treat you like mud. If you think she's worth the risk of giving it another try, call her, talk to her and try to get a feel for where she is at and how she feels about you. If she seems interested then let her know that you are too. Instead of talking the past to death and creating friction, just be confident and know that you got over her before and you will again if necessary. Other than that, just see where it goes.
2007-10-13 19:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by bonnieboobabe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to let go of your hard feelings toward her. Let her know that you are sorry and DON'T expect her to say sorry back. Also tell her how you feel about her. Any relationship should be 100% effort on both ends. Do little things for her without the expectation of getting anything back. Good Luck and just listen to your heart.
2007-10-13 19:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by emmiekins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her everything it may take a few hours but at least you will feel better afterwards. Lifes too short and you never know if you will live tomorrow. Enjoy the good and control the bad. I did it and it worked!!! Go for it. If you are a man she probably feels exactly how you feel right now. Go get her!!!
2007-10-13 19:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by zora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez you need to grow up
you do not own her
if you really loved her
you would have secured her attention long before she decided well i am going to see if the grass is indeed greener on the other side
you are controlling
you cannot get mad for a someone who decide to be independent and free of a controlling guy like you are
you need to rethink yourself and grow up and mature
it's a good thing you never hooked up with her
as it would have been full of stress and violence
you need to feel good about yourself before you have any more relationships
2007-10-13 19:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WAS IN THE SAME EXACT SITUATION. HE WAS MY FIRST KISS I WAS 10 HE WAS 9. HE MOVED AWAY AND PROMISED TO KEEP IN TOUCH BUT DIDN'T. I SAW HIM AGAIN AT 16 AND WE SPOKE BUT THAT WAS IT, I WAS TOO HEART BROKEN TO SPEAK TO HIM BECAUSE HE BROKE A PROMISE. HE FOUND ME ON MYSPACE A MONTH AGO I'M 21 NOW HE'S 20. ITS FUNNY BECAUSE HE'S BEEN LOOKING FOR ME FOR ALL THESE YEARS AND I'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR HIM. WE ARE SO IN LOVE IT'S CRAZY I CANT GO A DAY WITHOUT HIM, IF I NEVER BELIEVED IN TRUE LOVE I BELIEVE IN IT NOW. SO MY ADVICE TO YOU IS TO GO FOR YOURS, NEVER GIVE UP.
2007-10-13 19:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by milly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her and perhaps show her everything you just wrote on here. Tell her how you feel about her, and how much you love her.
2007-10-13 18:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by **Mystica** 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I don't have enough time to even read all of that!
2007-10-13 19:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jenintn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a letter.
2007-10-13 19:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by BettyBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you told us
2007-10-13 20:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋