2007-10-13 12:16:52 · 12 answers · asked by Miss T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow...before I could even add details, so many of you were quick to call me by all kinds of names....assuming I was shallow. Guess what gang? I'm the chick, with this hot guy flirting with me, but nothing goes any further and Iit's totally distracting me from work and everything around me. It's a desperate, frustrating, insecure feeling to have this hovering around me. I was hoping to get feedback that is "real" like the guy who said "well, he probably thinks you'll stick around" . Living in a society where we are judged by our looks, it's intimidating anyway. To those of you with snide remarks, thanks for the added nasty. If you're not going to respond constructively, please don't respond at all.
2007-10-13 13:33:56 · update #1
It could be that he really genuinely likes you and thinks your really cute, pretty, etc. Everyone has their own tastes when it comes to finding people attractive. I tend to find guys who have the "thicker" or the "football build" more attractive myself, but my best friend tends to go for extremely skinny guys. We're all different. I'd say try to ditch your paranoia, and go for it, if you don't you might lose out on a good thing!
2007-10-13 14:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not that easy to tell a 17 yr old from a 18 yr old. Young girls are often more attractive by our societies standards then 40 year old ones, just like the older guys with the pot bellies, or look in any magazine. If you tell them you are under 18 they would probably run the other direction.
2016-05-22 06:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by amada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you the fat girl or someone observing this? If you're the observer, then all I have to say is that you are jealous, repulsive and shallow and you should be knocked the F out by said "fat girl." You have serious problems and your parents must suck hog sack.
If you are her, then just enjoy it and don't question it but don't make too much of it, because you don't want to set yourself up to be hurt. People can be cruel.. I hope he's not one of them though, there's a good chance he really sees you for who you are and isn't as shallow as a lot of "attractive" (ugly on the inside) people are.
2007-10-13 12:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
1. He really likes her.
2. He is insecure and thinks she will say yes not matter what.
3. Easy sex.
4. He really likes girls who are older and plump and thinks she has a great personality along with good looks.
2007-10-13 12:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sadie S 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some people like that body type or aren't bothered by it, at least. Tastes varying considerably from person to person, or maybe her personality won out over all other considerations.
2007-10-13 12:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Captain S 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You mean fat because she doesn't fit into a size 2 dress? Or maybe that older women aren't be-achez.
2007-10-13 12:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I like girls older than me & overweight. i wont even look at a girl under 200lbs. I got picked on & ignored in school alot. So now I ignore the types of girls that pick on & ignored me in scholl. Those older chubby girls never done anything mean to me. Plus I cant think of going down on a 90LB chik. Gross! But really most chubby girls are tired of the world being mean to them & are willing to play nice. Its amazing how once you go to an "old fat chic" all these skinny snobs start noticing!
2007-10-13 12:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
well the only thing i could think of is so they can see what a older girl has to offer him......all guys think about sex and thats prob. why bc older girls are more likely to give in!
2007-10-13 12:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy Cowgirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that older fat girl might have a great personality.
OR
he may be thinking fat girls are easy.
2007-10-13 12:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ummmm good question but its just like zac efron and that other fat girl that stands up on the table in high school musical 1 them too are going out. its called love
2007-10-13 12:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by two... 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋