My friends are always looking to get married. Thinking about marriage ruins the fun of dating. All the guys I date want to eventually settle down. I just want to have a good time but I don't ever want to get married. Don't you think marriage just ruins everything?
2007-10-13 20:38:54 · 8 answers · asked by Lina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Getting married is by choice and decision one make and its its a good idea if they found the right person and knows, understand what they are getting into, and what they want in a marriage life style. If the fall on the wrong person, they get burned. However love is always blind, sometimes some don't see beyond there noses.So marriage don't ruins an thing unless you don't know what you want. If you marry a right person, you will have good times and you won't worry about dating any more. Obviously you know you have a companion to have fun with, help you out when you are down, to support you, to motivate you. but if you are single, yes you control yourself but still you will have desire to find Mr right for you either for dating, to have fun etc and more likely those folk only are with you temporary. They get what they want and move on. So which one is better for you
2007-10-13 22:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not think marriage "ruins" everything.
I much prefer having a partner whom I know will stand by me - not just through the good times, but the dark times as well.
A partner who doesn't have one foot in the back door; ready to bail-out at the first sign of difficulty.
Why should I want to return to the days of the "dating pool" and play all those stupid dating mind games?
Why should I want to worry about contracting STDs?
No, marriage is just fine, thank you.
And if you have a little creativity and sense of fun, it never, ever gets dull...
2007-10-14 08:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by John Doe 1st 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Marriage has a certain amount of security. You can still have fun, because they don't lock you up in prison when you're married. You just limit your attentions to one person. It's called fidelity.
Marriage is a whole different ballgame. If you don't want to get married, you're entitled to do that, but realize that as you get older, there may be fewer and fewer people with the same opinion.
2007-10-14 03:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I love being married. I love having someone special in my life. He knows everything about me and vice versa. We share everything and know each others deepest wants and desires. We know what makes us happy and what doesn't. No more childish games that you get in the dating world.
I really think marriage has a maturity level. When your ready to find that one person that just makes you then your ready for marriage.
That is what marriage is to me anyway. Others see it differently I suppose.
2007-10-14 03:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by blueeyd_princess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who you ask. I don't think I'll ever get married because it scares the S*** out of me. I don't like the idea of being "put in the role of woman" (as an ex said to me). I'm not going to work my butt off and be expected to squeeze out a few, clean the house, cook, spread my legs when HE feels like it and then bring him his damn slippers. Do I sound bitter? Guess I 'm better off alone.
2007-10-14 03:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by ldywolf64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have fun take care of your self and screw what everybody thinks. Those guys probably just want to give you that impression for the wrong reasons.
2007-10-14 03:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by carinna h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just use birth control and follow your heart. Leave everyone else alone and let them live their lives.
2007-10-14 03:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-10-14 04:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by trish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋