Family & Relationships - 13 October 2007

today he is drunk.

2007-10-13 17:03:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have a "boyfriend" thats been out for a year. He's never not e-mailed me and he didn't this week. His last letter was also a little different. what does this mean?? I'm freakin out.... thanks

2007-10-13 16:57:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he says he has been unhappy for the last 2 yrs. and wants out..I have 2 kids from prev. marriage, him...none, and we have a 1yr. old son together..just bought new house..he has moved out 2 weeks ago..has told none of tis family..he says, he wants to divorce and stay friends.(possible?)..he comes in the house ..gets into the fridge..makes himself a meal..get on the computer..watches t.v...has some play time with our son..does his laundry..all just like there is no divorce going on...the kicker here..he says,' he will pay all existing bills..incl.house payment..and give X amount of $ to take care of me and the kids'...we will also live within walking distance of eachother,..Has yet to put into writting..his so called purposal..OH yea..also his request, lets keep att. out of this..too good to be true?..what do you think?? I am caucious, very caucious...and since 'he' moved out..isn't this 'my and the kids home?

2007-10-13 16:56:37 · 5 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex has moved on. . .no other guys flirt with me, even in ALL grades at my school. . .am i unattractive? I wear appealing clothes, makeup, etc. I am ugly?, or do guys just don't see anything in me?

2007-10-13 16:56:03 · 19 answers · asked by mjponygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 16:54:06 · 15 answers · asked by Spades 1 in Singles & Dating

How did you propose to your spouse, or how would you like to be proposed to?

Is it normal to be scared to death by the thought of it, too; nervous about asking, that is?

2007-10-13 16:53:50 · 16 answers · asked by Jack B, goodbye, Yahoo! 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Brandon Kyle Cavalier or John Wesley Blalock or Alec Cole Meeker or Amanda Marie Newton or Chloe Delaney Hendricks??? if you knoiw any of these ppl..tell me what you know about them & how you know them...btw i am NOT a stalker!

2007-10-13 16:48:19 · 12 answers · asked by Mandaree 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 16:48:11 · 3 answers · asked by 1212 2 in Friends

to have the traditional "gift" table made out of hey bails? I want the reception to be fun and memorable but not rediculously tacky.

2007-10-13 16:41:43 · 11 answers · asked by rickys_lil_mama 2 in Weddings

k so my parents are split up and now my mom has had her heart broken 3 times all ready and my dad still has no gf can someone tell me how to deal with this.. i cnat do this on my own any more!

2007-10-13 16:41:05 · 6 answers · asked by kat_lover_aka_angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what r like the little things and what makes them attractive

2007-10-13 16:40:17 · 4 answers · asked by loveyou 3 in Singles & Dating

We went to our son's cub scout outing. My mother went with us. I pushed my mom's wheelchair all the time, up hill down hill. I did not asked him any help, and he was busy with kids. Then before we left, my husband went to help out one of kid's mom. Helping her put kids in the car because she has four kids with her at that time. I helped my mother and put wheelchair in the car, and told our two kids to get in the car. They are five, and seven. They know what to do. She has three, two, and seven. Other kid is seven also(not her own). I got so mad. How is can help other woman over his wife of 15 years. I told him maybe he is in love with her. He says "no". and i told him denial is not going to help him. Am i mean or is he crazy?

2007-10-13 16:40:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey, I'm a young, very attractive, black college student. I'm usually open to all races and I don't see color when it comes to wanting to date or liking someone. Recently I "Fell" for this white guy in one of my classes we're taking. He's so attractive to me - in his personality -which is smart and intelligent and he's very good looking. We basically share almost the same interests and successes. But...

We've become partners for a project in that class and so we've gotten to know each other quite much. He seems to like me and all, smiles (I guess as a friend). But the thing is -- would he ever want to date me? I'm so worried.... because I doooo really like him ALOT! Basically - I think about him EVERYDAY. He's always on my mind!!!

2007-10-13 16:39:56 · 33 answers · asked by SpecialHeart<3 5 in Singles & Dating

I had the pleasure of falling in love with my best friend.
I trusted him, I loved him. He knew everything about me, and vice versa.
He drinks a lot and he hit me, a bunch of times.
I got away from him....moved out of state....however,
I miss my best friend like mad. I'm not quite sure what to do.

2007-10-13 16:38:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does my boyfriend like my best friend?
My b.f and i just started going out. We really like each other,but sometimes it seems like my b.f and best friend talk way too much,she talks to him a lot,he thinks she's "weird",and I think he looks at her the way he looks at me,and when he talks to her,it seems different then the way he talks to me. But on the other hand,he cracks jokes around me,gives me hugs,smiles at me,and stuff like that....im totally confuzed!!
Is it just me,or does he really like my bff??
HELP PLEASE!!
IM REALLY CONFUZED!!
PLEASE

2007-10-13 16:33:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay... so im planning my ceremony to be around sunset on the beach ...and for the date i've picked, sunset is around 8pm. The ceremony will probably be 20 min then like 30 min for pictures. So, dinner would not be until 9pm... should I make it a dessert reception only, have dessert reception and have dinner before the ceremony, or just have a dinner reception? Also, if the dinner before the ceremony, should it be at a resturant with a few close relatives like parents and siblings or should it be on the beach buffet style with everyone invited? Also, it would be a saturday, the weekend before memorial day, and in michigan... Oh, if it helps it is between 2-3 hours to drive for guests...THANKS!

2007-10-13 16:33:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok so I met him Thursday night, he lives next to my friend and i was over her house.So we went over and we were all sitting in his front yard.We were all laughing and having soo much fun. I've never met him before this. I thought he was soo cute. So later on after we go back to her house him, his bro, and his friend calls and asked if we can sneak through his window. Its 11 and her mom said just stay till12.We wre playing truth/dare, but really only dare.They all kept daring me to kiss him, and i did but the prob was, he was sleeping.After we left and bout 1 he calls and said that they were coming over and he was going to make up for the 5 kisses and make out with me. And sure they did.And i never made out b4 that.So then again at like 3 we told them to come back, this time it was just him and his friend.He stayed out in the freezing 10 degrees for me with no coat.a little while ago I told him i liked him and he said he liked me but not as strong as i prob.want he said i was cool help!

2007-10-13 16:33:42 · 7 answers · asked by Rhea Lynn <3 2 in Singles & Dating

I wish you could give me an answer for those questions.!
***Its just soo interesting for me. Were most of you like after your 20.s or before? I'm curious about it,. Im 19 btw.

--And i wonder..when people get married..do you still have the same feeling for each other as it used to be?

--Like you could've been crazy, (so in love) for eachother..not imagine your life without him/her...n has it stayed the same way til now.??
Or things change after marriage.
--Do you sometimes feel as if it would be better to wait longer,? Or do you think that you could have much more happiness, if you werent married,..or have an eye on someone,..but you cant show. Do you feel as if you really wanna get away..but take sacrifice for your kids..just to keep the family together.?
Thank you soo much for your answers.

2007-10-13 16:32:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I wish you could give me an answer for those questions.!
***Its just soo interesting for me. Were most of you like after your 20.s or before? I'm curious about it,. Im 19 btw.

--And i wonder..when people get married..do you still have the same feeling for each other as it used to be?

--Like you could've been crazy, (so in love) for eachother..not imagine your life without him/her...n has it stayed the same way til now.??
Or things change after marriage.
--Do you sometimes feel as if it would be better to wait longer,? Or do you think that you could have much more happiness, if you werent married,..or have an eye on someone,..but you cant show. Do you feel as if you really wanna get away..but take sacrifice for your kids..just to keep the family together.?
Thank you soo much for your answers.

2007-10-13 16:31:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If the wife was sexually abused as a child and never dealt with it, decides she wants kids and marrys someone, has 3 children and drives the husband away through alienation, because she doesn't like sex, can she be sued for divorce based on fraud?

2007-10-13 16:30:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was married for 15 years and my ex husband left me for someone else. I filed two months after he left and told me he no longer loved me. I started dating and then he told me he made a mistake. I told him it was too late. I kept dating this one man and realized I was trying to replace my ex with this new man. The new man is obsessed with me and I feel badly because I told him I loved him and that I would marry him. I now know after thinking hard that I was in love with the idea of having someone adore me. I still love my ex husband. We have two children, one who is four and the other who is thirteen. I am not sure if I can ever trust my ex again or if it is even worth trying. He is still seeing the woman he cheated with but claims he is not happy and will never be happy we are divorced. I am not sure what to do.

2007-10-13 16:29:36 · 15 answers · asked by bebe12 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-13 16:27:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He and his wife have been married for 8 years, have 3 kids- 6 & 4 y.o girls and a 6 month old son. Together and apart, they live with and mooch off of all family members. Neither works for more than a month or two at a time. Kids are adorable, but poorly behaved (the oldest has been in 8 schools already, in the 1st grade!) My hubby & I have tried to help and bail them out, tech then how to manage their money, but they always want to do what is easiest for them, not pay bills, get kicked out, buy toys for the kids, move from family member to family member. They have been kicked out of 5 family member houses, including mine. We have put over $50K into their bills and budget with in the last 5 years. About $30K into vehicles for them that never got repaid. His wife is very blunt and disrespectful ("This is how I am...take it or leave it!" I leave it...) Both are very lazy. Have GEDs, he's been discharged from the Navy. She's covered with tattoos, including a pentagram on her hand.

2007-10-13 16:24:19 · 12 answers · asked by Cindy T 1 in Family

There is this guy that likes me and we met at my friends party and have been talking online. My friend is up for the weekend from college and he wanted me to hang out with them. The original plan was they were going to watch the movie The Notebook (because I told him I liked it) and he wanted me to come. I thought that would be awkward. Plans change he told me she had to work and they weren't hanging out. Well a few minutes ago she calls me because they were out together and I didn't answer my phone. Should I hang out with him and her? I think it would be very strange. It might be comfortable though. I am 21 and I don't drive so if we were to hang out alone what would I do for a ride?

2007-10-13 16:22:36 · 1 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Singles & Dating

supposedly i give my girlfriend many orgasms but i can never know when it is that she's having one.

2007-10-13 16:21:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

..when it comes to sexual matters? to cut the story short. she bid me not to watch visually stimulating videos, or other sexy stuffs. i askd her bout this matter because shes not really into it. so i thought of a compromise such this. but she does not want to still. man, i luv err so i listen to her. agreement is still on but im finding it bit cruel already. she does not even provide me with reasonable explanations but keep me hangin on this matter. Ladies, wat u think? are u like this? wats she up to?

Enlighten me. :-)

2007-10-13 16:21:24 · 17 answers · asked by njÇhEn™ 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I am a freshman. (9th grade, 14 years old) My family is so over protective! Sometimes I can't take it anymore. But I know they love me and care about me but I am still a girl with needs. I can't put on make up, can't have close guy friends, meaning no boyfriends what so ever until I finish college. Crazy or what?! I am always expected to clean the house and get straight A's. I am so stressed! I want to be just like a normal teenager with close guy friends and hanging out with friends at malls and having fun, I am missing out on so many things.

I need your opinions, tell me what you think, is it just me with this problem? I feel like all my peers are having the best time and I am missing out on all the fun. :(

2007-10-13 16:19:51 · 35 answers · asked by ?? 1 in Family

Got in a HUGE fight today. I am 15 and I have a brother and two sisters. All of them moved out (my brother is in the army) They get into some pretty big fights everyonce in a while but not like this. He kept telling my mom what to do and saying if she didnt do it he would nag her all day every day until she did. Anyways the fight was about 1 1/2 hours ago and my mom has been gone since it ended. I dont know where she went but I'm stuck here with my stepdad and his daughter(18). They both hate me and we rarley talk to eachother. It is really weird and I don't know what to do. Any advice/support? Thanks
By the way we dont live in like a trailer park or anything we have a 3 story house so I can avoid my stepdad and his daughter easily.

2007-10-13 16:17:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am really emotional these 2 weeks.. so many bad things have happened! I just.. each time i go to sleep i cry.. i get pissed at everything aorund me.. for no reasson really.. Like for example if my parents tell me to do my homework or they sorda yell at me beacucase i didnt clean my room (even though i promise..) i get mad and pissed at them go to my bedroom and slam the door.. then i realize what i did was wrong AND CRY! I just i dont know what im doing until i do it!

Is this normal for a 12 year old/7th grader?


Also: when i hear about a disaster (even one that happened a couple years ago i cry!)

It's like the whole world is on my shoulders! I cant take this!!!!!

example: i found out my parents bought teh camera i wanted forever! but they will only give it to m on christmas so i started crying! wtf is wrong with me?!?

2007-10-13 16:15:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my mom and my baby's father do not get along. My mom already called the cops on him one time he came to visit she got mad because he wouldn't leave. i don't think its right. what should i do?

2007-10-13 16:13:39 · 14 answers · asked by Nena G 1 in Family