I wish you could give me an answer for those questions.!
***Its just soo interesting for me. Were most of you like after your 20.s or before? I'm curious about it,. Im 19 btw.
--And i wonder..when people get married..do you still have the same feeling for each other as it used to be?
--Like you could've been crazy, (so in love) for eachother..not imagine your life without him/her...n has it stayed the same way til now.??
Or things change after marriage.
--Do you sometimes feel as if it would be better to wait longer,? Or do you think that you could have much more happiness, if you werent married,..or have an eye on someone,..but you cant show. Do you feel as if you really wanna get away..but take sacrifice for your kids..just to keep the family together.?
Thank you soo much for your answers.
2007-10-13 16:32:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'll give you the condensed version, She was 17, I was 19, Knew her 2 months, been married 42 years, wouldn't change a thing, Love her more every day............#########
2007-10-13 16:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I got married when I was 26 & my hubby was 28. I had a career, my own apartment, etc. We were engaged for just over a year before we got married. We have been married for over 17 yrs now and I can't imagine my life without him in it.
You asked if love stays the same? No, not at all. But then neither do you. Love grows and changes as you grow and change. Nothing should be stagnic in life...relationships grow and evolve as you live and with whatever you go through together. We have gone through so many good times and hard times. Birth's of our children, death of grandparents, illness, money problems, major moves...and all the rest of this wonderful life. Sometimes we are really close, sometimes we are looking at one another like strangers. Through years of working opposite shifts and having three babies...we have come out the other side stronger and more together than we ever thought we could become all those years ago.
Sure you sacrifice for your kids. That is the natural way of things...we want our children to have everything we didn't even get a chance at growing up. We do it without thought or regrets. Children are young for such a short time really. We will have tons of time alone when they are grown and on their own. Childhood is only 17 or 18 years long and I don't want to miss out on a bit of theirs....nor do I want them to miss out.
2007-10-13 16:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I first got married when I was 19, If I could do it over, I would have waited. BTW I'm divorced now, got divorced 4 years after i was married.
I wish I had took the time and grew up some. Do not get married before 25.
2007-10-13 16:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by lynnn30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married the first time when I was 19...It so did not work out...We were crazy in love and right after we got married we hated being around one another! I got divorced at 20. I got remarried at 26 the second time and am sooo glad I waited...we have been married close to 5 yrs. and I could not be happier...our flame hasn't burnt out as of yet! We have 2 kids one from my previous (a girl) and ours (a boy). We make time to love, fight, and spend time just being!! Good Luck in your endevors! =)
2007-10-14 07:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by MomX's2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 25 when i got married and I am glad i waited longer. Because I had time to do the things I wanted to be doing , working ,school ,saving money . etc And I wanted to be sure that's the one for me .
If you don't trust the person you are with then don't get married. Sometimes your gutfeeling will tell you so
2007-10-13 16:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 21 when I got married,have been married to my sweetie for 10 years now,and have 2 daughters.You always have to be very honest and not hide any thing* when you are with the right person.It really is worth it when you are with the most amazing person ever.
2007-10-13 20:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by Smooches just give me some 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 23........
As far as the other stuff I would do it all over again, that does not mean that everything is roses but if you marry your best friend and love them more than you love yourself (of course they have to return the favor) then going thru the bumpy stuff together only makes your marriage stronger
2007-10-13 16:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by cmebDUCKs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 24 when I got married. For me kasi age doesnt matter...it's up to your readiness to face all the responsibilities of becoming a wife or husband and father or mother to your children.
2007-10-13 16:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by boomeerash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ive never been married so i couldnt tell ya!
But i dont want to get married young, im going to wait.
2007-10-13 16:46:42 · answer #9 · answered by marya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i got married when i was 21 i really love my wife and my kids. when me and my wife were dating our love was strong for each other and after we got married our love became stronger and if it wont for her i would of been dead by now so i hope this answers ur question oh and btw watever age it says on yahoo am really 21 =)
2007-10-13 16:37:09 · answer #10 · answered by nigga mofo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋