My ex has moved on. . .no other guys flirt with me, even in ALL grades at my school. . .am i unattractive? I wear appealing clothes, makeup, etc. I am ugly?, or do guys just don't see anything in me?
2007-10-13 16:56:03 · 19 answers · asked by mjponygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No! I think everyone is beautiful and unique in their own way, and you are probably really pretty! I'm sure you will find someone really soon, the right person just hasn't come along yet. I hope this helps! =)
2007-10-13 17:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by Loves 2 Sing. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's not jump to conclusions here. Maybe no guys flirt with you because they just don't feel a connection with you. You seem like the type of girl that needs attention from men to feel wanted. I would personally not let this affect you. Honestly, love takes patience. If you are not patient, you will not find love. Maybe you just haven't met the right guy for you.
If you really think you're ugly, (which I don't think is the problem here) then an appearance change might be good. I would suggest a minor change. I would suggest giving your hair some highlights. It is important not to make any dramatic changes like dying your whole hair one color or a lip ring. This is important for a couple of reasons:
1. If you make a dramatic change to your body, it takes guys a while to adjust to the new you. It will only take guys longer to flirt because they are not used to this look and they will be deciding whether they like it or not.
2. A major appearance change basically shows your ex that he has won.
I hope this has helped. You're in high school I'm assuming. High school can be a very troublesome time. Just stay headstrong and you should be fine.
2007-10-14 00:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mack Daddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am probably 3 to 4 times your age, and in my entire life so far, I have never seen ugly people. So, obviously, you are NOT ugly.
What I would say is that since your dear friend has just left, you probably have some healing to do. Don't rush... Take your time. You probably look little sad right now. When you are done healing and your bright smiles come back, you will be ready to see other people again.
By the way, what I've noticed in my past xx years is, when someone calls someone else ugly, they are almost always NOT talking about the other person. They are talking about either him/herself or their own problems. Think about that next time you hear the word ugly.
2007-10-14 00:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one fancied me at school and now I get loads of attention and like how I look :)
You probably aren't ugly although I can't tell yuo for sure cause I have neever seen you but surely the fact taht you have had a bf in the past means that you arent hideous and must be something there?
2007-10-13 23:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by Perfectwings 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you are not unattractive just it isn't your time to shine yet.
Sometimes we all have valley periods where nobody seems to notice us but that is only a temporary situation that soon pass and you will be notice by people especially guys at your school.
Please don't be discouraged but encouraged!!
2007-10-14 00:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by John J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No!
I don't understand, you look good, you have a nice face, beautiful eyes, brown hair
The only problem is the neck, a bit thin, but usually guys dont really look at the neck
2007-10-14 00:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by ed s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing guys find most attractive is self-confidence. Be confident about yourself and who you are, and the rest will fall into place.
2007-10-13 23:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by ShaunaMae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer is neither. No one has the right to make you feel unattractive.
2007-10-13 23:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by Eric N 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you feel unatractive you're probably putting out that vibe. Feel confident in yourself for a while without a guy!
2007-10-14 00:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dealt with love♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably giving off a vibe that says you are unavailable or uninterested.
2007-10-14 00:09:26 · answer #10 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋