For me to fall in love with a girl vs just lust, she needs a personality. She has to be able to keep up with me intellectually, or I can't respect her enough to love her. When I say keep up with me, I mean have her own ideas, be able to explain them, be able to make me think, and to be able to hold her own in a conversation. These girls usually range from 5-7 on the scale of looks. If you go under 5 you get the insecure ones that say things that make them think they sound smart when they sound like there stupid or trying too hard. Then 8-10s have the problem where they are way too into their appearances and have an even greater problem with communication.
To me, if a girl is a 5-7 and shes really smart, that adds at least a couple points.
Now, for physical attractiveness, its not what she wears, but when she does and how she keeps my attention. Too me, tight jeans are the easiest way for a girl to keep my attention. Im just saying. Other things don't have as big of an impact.
Also, she has to have a pretty face. This is a must.
Another thought, weight isnt a big deal to me. Too skinny is way unattractive, and to heavy is way unattractive. Anywhere in the middle is fine. A few pounds overweight is better though. Maybe im weird, but this is my idea.
2007-10-13 16:56:18
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answered by Mashu 4
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3 factors that have to come together to fall in love 1)looks fine 2)is very nice and compationate loves to help others 3) smart and by that i mean like honor students . Like last time i fell in love with a girl in my college who is doing premed like me and she had all those 3 factors
2007-10-13 16:53:41
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answered by fun23211 1
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Personality. Someone who can hold my attention is presence and conversation as well as looks...looks will fade, but inner beauty lasts forever.
2007-10-13 16:45:54
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answered by Anonymous
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