k so my parents are split up and now my mom has had her heart broken 3 times all ready and my dad still has no gf can someone tell me how to deal with this.. i cnat do this on my own any more!
2007-10-13 16:41:05 · 6 answers · asked by kat_lover_aka_angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thats life. you have to try accept the reality.
maybe its her destiny to be just a single.
myself came to a broken family also, when i was young i cant admit it to myself why such things like it have to happen. then when i get married, too many challenges ive been through, i forced myself to do everything for me to save my marriage...but it didnt happen. my 5 yr old son understood whats goin on, and he may not say clearly that he wants his parents back together but i strongly believe and feel he feel the same way like you do. even parents separated, our priority still your own goodness sake. love is what we want you to feel, better than you kids see us fighting infront of you, thats so very sad and not healthy family.
2007-10-13 16:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by princessqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was your dad coming back and leaving again the 3 times she had her heart broken? You need to urge both of them to get counseling and try to work things out and they may be able to get back together but you have to understand that although I am sure both of them love you, sometimes there are things that tear a couple apart that is really no one's fault. You should talk to a counselor yourself and perhaps by combining that with their counseling you can become a family again. Tell them both how you feel and perhaps they will agree to counseling for that reason alone. I hope this works out for you but remember that they both love you and you can love both of them whether they stay together or not. I hope they do for your sake!!
2007-10-13 16:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear - I just want to give you a big hug! Your feeling scared because your parents don't seem to realise that they have a lovely child together who's needs are not being met. How selfish of them! Do you have access to a counsellor at school or at Church? I would talk to someone whom you trust - what about a grandparent, family member etc? You can't do this on you own.
2007-10-13 16:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is confusing to appreciate once you're youthful yet marriages are not proper and now and returned human beings purely grow to be bored in one yet another or one loses activity in the different. this is not the top of the international. The purpose for each individual is to be happy and if a individual isn't happy in a dating they could desire to flow on. otherwise they are dissatisfaction with the dating will advance and it's going to turn in to resentment. the two way you are able to desire to understand that it is not approximately you. this is something between them and you haven't any longer have been given any administration over it. purely enable them to paintings it out. they're going to nonetheless be your mum and dad (organic and organic or no longer) and that they are going to nonetheless love you. now and returned human beings purely could desire to flow on for their very own sake.
2016-12-18 06:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR PARENTS WILL GET OVER IT JUST GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE DONT STRESS THIS IS THERE DECISION NOT YOURS AND IM SURE MAYBE THEY MIGHT GET BACK TOGETHER SOMETIMES WE JUST NEED TIME AWAY FROM EACH OTHER TO REALIZE WHAT WE HAD OR HAVE AND DONT GO AND GET CRAZY I MEAN ON DRUGS AND DRINKING YOU GO TO SCHOOL AND DO YOUR VERY BEST FOR THEM THEY STILL LOVE YOU AND ALWAYS WILL... JUST PRAY GOOD LUCK
2007-10-13 19:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by ajgbjl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents, they may consider this and find somehow to handle your feelings
2007-10-13 16:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by **kayraa(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋