my mom and my baby's father do not get along. My mom already called the cops on him one time he came to visit she got mad because he wouldn't leave. i don't think its right. what should i do?
2007-10-13 16:13:39 · 14 answers · asked by Nena G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What you should do is move into your own place, pay your own bills and have anyone over you want. Then when baby # 5 comes along you can have all 5 "baby's daddies" over for a party.
2007-10-13 16:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When it's your moms house & she asks someone to leave, then all that person should do is LEAVE!
That's the only thing that would be right in a situation like that.
If your baby's father refused to leave, it WAS your mom's right to call the police to have him removed from the home.
If that somehow wrecks your life. It was a decision made by your baby's father, not your mom that did it.
When there's a man in your life that you can only best describe as "my baby's father" it suggests to me that you need to take a hard look at some of the decisions YOU make that affect your life, NOT YOUR MOTHER!
2007-10-13 16:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's right either! I think you should show her who's boss, and pack your book bag, bottles and the baby and move out of her house and continue to "reck" your own life.
Or better yet, move in with the babies daddy and "reck" his life and the both of you can "reck" the babies life!
Maybe she got mad and kicked him out praying he would take you with him.
I'm sure your mother doesn't think it's right that she still has to provide for you, and now your child and still look at the stupid idiot that got you pregnant and left you there with her.
From this posting, your mom would do well to keep the police on speed dial.
Say, why don't you move in with him and his mom?
2007-10-13 16:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by naughtycat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well part of it does depend on your age. If you are under the age of 18 there is really nothing you can do. with the exception of emancipation but you have to have a good reason to be emancipated and prove to the courts that you can support yourself.
If you're over the age of 18 all I can really suggest would be to move into your own place you could room with somebody or just by yourself.
either way you should really try talking with your mom about what she's doing because it isn't right. However having a good line of communication in any relationship can really help .
2007-10-13 16:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Islam teaches us the best way to you live. According to Islam parents rights are so preferable amongst all, just because they took care of you when you were nothing. And in return you must not reply harshly. So its good that you are thinking that my mom is right. But you should also find out by what cause is she after your baby's father? First find it out from your Baby's father and discuss it with him. And if he did something wrong then forbid him, and tell him to appolagize to your mother. Then i swear that you will be in peace for ever and your life will be normal.
hope i answered your question
2007-10-13 16:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this incident occured in your mother's house, she had every right to call the cops if she asked him to leave and he didn't. If they can't get along, you will just have to keep them separated. I'm sure there's a good reason why your mother dislikes this man so much, she only has your best interest at heart.
2007-10-13 16:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, how old are you? Second, do you live with your mom? If you are underage and he is of age then she has every right not to like him. If you are both of legal consenting age, then she still has a right not to like him, but not to force that view on you. If you are still living with your mom, then she has every right to determine who comes into her home and who doesn't. And your boyfriend has no right to "refuse" to leave! If you want freedom and the ability to make your own decisions, get out on your own...then you can decide who can see you and who can't.
I imagine though that your mom has some sort of valid reason for not wanting him near you.
2007-10-13 16:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by A R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wrecked your life by allowing you to date in the first place and also to make a baby you cannot support.If your b/f is so wonderful then he should have a job a place of HIS OWN and transportation, he should be marrying you and moving you in with him say .....a month before you got pregnant.
Sounds like your mom sees him for what he REALLY is and not what you fantasize him to be hon.Listen to her before you make a bigger mess than you have already of your life.
2007-10-13 16:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are living in your mother's home then you have to respect the fact she doesn't want him around. What are her reasons for not liking him? If you want your baby's father to be in the baby's life you are probably going to have to make arrangements where he can spend time with his child without your mother around.
2007-10-13 16:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live at her house, she is feeding you and your child, then you have to live by her rules.
If you want to do things all your way, then move out and support yourself and your child. Otherwise, be respectful and work out things with her and your child's father.
2007-10-13 16:19:33 · answer #10 · answered by LeslieAnn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋