what do you think?
2007-10-13 07:05:58 · 31 answers · asked by gottalublilgiggles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trying on shoes before buying them, good idea or not?
2007-10-13 07:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 5⤋
GOOD! for lots of reasons.
It is important for a person to understand their own bodies before marriage.
Sex is not a sin - God invented it. And if your beliefs don't run that way, Sex evolved to be pleasurable to encourage close relationships. We are designed to have sex, so it is not wrong to do it.
It is very valuable to know if you are sexually compatible with your partner. If you wait until it's too late to change your mind, then you are stuck with a bad marriage, and there is nothing more hellish on Earth.
Demanding your partner be a virgin until marriage is extremely selfish and inconsiderate - a relic of puritanical repressive prudishness that has no place in a caring society. If your partner is so insecure that they can't stand the thought you were with someone before them, then you should think twice about marrying them. Who wants anybody that jealous and controlling?
If you are careful, know what you are doing, and how to protect yourself, you will not get pregnant or catch STDs. If you find someone you care about and who cares about you, then there is no legitimate reason to wait.
2007-10-15 20:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on alot of things. When I was 16, I lived with my strict catholic parents and my father is a BIG man, so to keep me from getting slapped, I said no then.
After getting out on my own, yes, I wanted to, but not just randomly with anyone, it would have mattered how I felt about him, he about me, etc.
I did it before marriage, the only thing I would change is the partner I did it with, 18, too fast, blah, blah, blah. It's neither good or bad in itself, sex is a wonderful experience, how you use it, that's a different story. In this day of rampant AIDS, herpes and so forth, I would be a little more picky. Fortunately, I'm in a permanent, monogamous relationship, so I enjoy sex.
2007-10-13 07:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I did it before marriage only once. And now I am engaged to the man of my dreams and he is a virgin. It definitely makes things awkward. It depends on the person. But I know that for me it was definitely bad. I regret it more than anything.
2007-10-17 04:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guilty party may contract a sexually transmitted disease, which can then be transmitted to the innocent victim
The victim is usually the female.. misscarriage.. losing virginity etc..
Teenage pregnancy is on the increase; girls as young as 11 are getting pregnant—a child is pregnant with a child. Many teenagers are having abortions, which leads to emotional, physical, and mental side effects
Girls as young as 10–12 are having unprotected sex, with devastating consequences. When questioned, these young children say, “No one told me that it is wrong.”
More and more relationships end up in hurt, depression, unhappiness, conflict, and regret.
BUT ASK UR SELF HOW WOULD U FEEL IF UR HUSBAND OR WIFE IS A VIRGIN AND ONLY U HAD SEX WTH HER?
2007-10-13 07:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends. Having multiple partners when you are young is not only bad but very stupid. But. . .in a long term commited relationship. . .before I got married, I would try it out to be sure it was what I wanted. I can't imagine being married to someone I didn't enjoy sex with. But you have to do what is right for you. Do not start early and do not have sex because someone is pressuring you. Anyone that will not wait for you, is not who you want to be with. Your body is very precious, keep it that way.
2007-10-13 07:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by towanda 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i think if you plan on getting married it is still a hard call. the best decision is to wait till you are commited. it depends on your religion and your own personal ethics. im going to wait till im married to the one i love but thats me. when you are commited to someone and there is mutual love and you arent afraid of a breakup it is safe. but dont just sleep with your bf/fiance/whatever then go sleep with someone else. the reason people have STDs is that people are not faithful to each other. just be careful and make sure you keep it special and with someone who is special.
2007-10-13 08:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by andy f 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is bad, as sex is not merely a physical thing it has to do with your emotions and how you'll make a bond with the person you'll spend the rest of your life with, it is not a test to see if you are compatible, that is the stupidest thing ever, a person is not a car or a shoe, grow up people, sex is for when you are completely sure you love that person and want to share yourself with them and take care of them, it is love.
2007-10-13 07:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by miki360 3 · 2⤊ 5⤋
very good. this is 21st centuary! u might find a gold rod on the road but its hard to find a virgin on the road... if ur very religious or whatever u do keep ur virginity but once u marry, r u grantee that he/she is a virgin?? if not, this is sooo unfair!
2007-10-13 07:10:27 · answer #9 · answered by desperategirl 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You wouldn't buy shoes without trying them on would you?
I think its good, but to each their own. Least now I know my fiance is good in bed, so no worries.
I have not lost respect for him nor has be lost repect for me. I do not view him as an unpaid prostitute.
2007-10-13 07:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by Megegie 5 · 4⤊ 3⤋
In today's society I don't think it matters much. I guess it depends how a person would morally feel about it.
2007-10-13 07:09:07 · answer #11 · answered by Teresa S 4 · 4⤊ 3⤋