2007-10-13 07:18:05 · 5 answers · asked by breanna w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first of all, you have to realize, that although they are your parents, and they love you very much, and a lot of what they do centers on you (and your siblings if you have any) this isn't about you, nor is it your fault. this is all them.
and then, realize that this will change your life, and make it hectic, but you can survive.
and finally find a school counselor, or go to another counselor, and talk to them about how you feel, and what is going on. they will be able to help you cope with it.
remember, the strongest people who make it through the worst things are only there, and only strong, because they asked for help to understand or cope. there is no shame in talking to someone so they can help you through this time.
2007-10-13 07:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it were me I would pray. If that doesn't work for you, find good friends to give you moral support. I am sorry for your loss, and divorce is a loss. It is a loss of a life that you have gotten comfortable in. It is also a loss of the secure feeling of having both of your parents around when you need them.
Sometimes parents are so deeply involved in their own emotions during a divorce that they forget that kids have hurt feelings too. But find friends that you can talk to in confidence. It will help. God Bless
2007-10-13 14:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang in there and over time you will feel much better about the situation.
My kids said that seeing their dad happy and their mom happy being apart made them happier. They didn't have to listen to the arguing and fighting anymore. They had two happier parents and not an unhappy home anymore. Best of luck and know that they both love you and it will all be better soon.
2007-10-13 14:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sandi M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happens you have to learn to live with it. If it is acromonious then you see both of them but dont speak about either to the other. You will have to get on with your life now.
did one cheat or did they just outgrow each other. Maybe one parent just waited till you got older now that time has come that one has taken the initative to end the marriage.Let them sort it out do not get involved.
2007-10-13 14:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called acceptance.
2007-10-13 14:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋