ok we've all seen how girls post chainletters on bullitens on myspace and other websites about what a girls wants but doesn't say or what a girl wants a guy to do for her.
ex) hold her HAND, or talk to her under the stars, kiss her in front of other girls u know , etc.
Now for all you guys out there, as a girl, i'd like to know what a guy wants a girl to do for them but never asks.
thanx for anyone who gives a good try.
p.s keep it on a clean level (don't say b_j or anything stupid)
2007-10-13 07:09:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, if I had a significant other, things I would want her to do without wanting to ask would be this.
If im deeply involved with something, like, internet, reading, something, and she interrupts me wearing something I like, then leads to other things, not necessarily all the way, but other things, thats good.
If she wore tight jeans and a low cut shirt once in a while, thats nice. And not all the time either cause it doesnt have the same effect.
Maybe if she would cook one of my favorite things once in a while and had it ready when I got home from work, that would be as good as anything.
Sometimes it would be nice if she was clingy, but only when im in the mood, like if im sitting, she comes up from behind and hugs me, or if im sitting and she sits on me, or something like that. Simple things that I wouldn't want to ask.
Then there are times, not alot of times, but sometimes I want her to just leave. I want to be alone for a day or something. Not to be mean, but just for personal time. About the same amount of times I want her to be clingy.
Im basically the type of guy that likes all the stuff that could lead to other things, but doesnt. Like a flirting type of thing. That does more for me then anything. lol, I sound more like a girl, but thats ok.
Hopefully this is what you were looking for.
2007-10-13 07:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mashu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, I say that what I want from a woman is to be honest, it's probably the most important thing in a relationship. Also, be talkative, we can talk about anything, as we're a couple, so, let it be :)
And then the usual romantic thing, holding hands, kissing, etc.
2007-10-13 07:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the same things that Girls want us to do. Talk/kiss/make out under the stars, hold hands, kiss in the movies, not too much different.
2007-10-13 07:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by trick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Jane... a man wants a woman to be his lover both in and out of bed. This includes all those romantic things that you think only girls like, and some guy stuff like:
respect that he might really like a sport
if he drinks alcohol, learn to make that drink or have it around
cook for him- he loves this (don't worry- we're easy)
initiate sexual contact- don't wait for him to do everything. Help him out... I agree with Dan Revere totally on this one.
hope this helps... light a candle, pour the wine and tell me you love me...
Antonio
2007-10-13 10:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by Antonio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jane...a guy just wants to "know" that his girl is true to him.
He wants his ego boosted with words that make him feel special just like you. Yes, he wants a B-J, but that's another topic. The problem is that most guys who are younger...18-25ish, are busy trying to look cool for their boys if you know what I mean, so they arent' ones to seek this kind of stuff.
Easy way to put it..guys basically want the same things that make a woman feel good.
2007-10-13 07:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well besides the obvious .he really wants her to build his ego up.probably telling him hes the stuff .be there for him allways 24 7 but he might forget how to do that for her.it sux iknow.to make himfeel needed like shes hi forever.to let himprotect her or hear her say it.that she needs him guys mental level is somewhat lacking till about 30 28 act like hes the only don on the earth.
2007-10-13 07:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by jayhawker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a guy wants: not to have to ask, he wants the girl to do kind things not because she's asked, but because she wants to. Doesn't matter what so much as just knowing she cares enough to want to make you happy.
2007-10-13 07:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by DAN REVERE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be all over me you know hug gs kisses touch here and there in a playful way not everything has to lead to intercourse . to be girl and very feminine . to tell me that she loves me and to be sincere about it. to spend time with me even if there is nothing to do .
2007-10-13 07:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by s374rc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we want them to be real and not phony and not fickle!
If you want something just ask. This hinting around and shucking and jiving about asking for things is so freakin annoying!
be yourself and be open
2007-10-13 07:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jabbi say this sound like good question. I am sorry but I can not help. Jabbi.
2007-10-13 07:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by Bronson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋