Yea, I'm engaged with a lovely caucasian man who treats me like a queen and I treat him like a king. We may argue and fight but that is life. We met four years ago and he met my family. They were nice around him and such but then when he would turn his back they'd pull me to the side and say nasty things about how you can't trust white folks. I mean they are my family but they have tooking things too far and at night I care about the things my mother would say to me but I would never tell my love yet, he would still comfort me at night until I just fall asleep in his arms. This has been going on for a while. I don't want to leave him because I love him and he loves me but if I listen to my family I would break his heart and he would think I'm racist. But if I follow my heart my parents want talk to me anymore. Please people give me some help please.
2007-10-13 06:37:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I.m in a bi-racial relationship, but I'm also lucky to come from a family that does not care what color a person is just as long as they love and respect you, if you love him tell him how your family feels and if your love for each other is strong the two of you will get pass it. And for your family talk to them because if they really love you all they should want for you is your happiness and safety and if this person can provide this they should accept him. Good Luck!
2007-10-13 14:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by gerrell n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that is so sad that your parents are that racist. i feel for you, i see that a little bit. my gf's parents act like im trouble, and they actually know im not. im sorry for you. but i so have some advice-- ditch your parents and elope with your love and move to cali or florida or something. you only live once and your relationship with your parents will always have some resentment. i think after things cool down maybe your parents will come to grips with the situation and see that hes a nice guy. after all, this isnt the 1800s!
2007-10-13 14:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by andy f 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think society is about to realize it's the government that has kept us divided. Soon enough, your folks will wake up. Follow your heart. You only live once.
2007-10-13 13:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents for a divorce! I know a honest white lawyer!!
2007-10-13 13:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But they will love the kids and that is what it is all about procreation.....enjoy what you have and let them with out blame throw rocks......
2007-10-13 13:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by mike m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you love him that much your family is just going to have to put up with the fact that you are happy with him and he is happy with you.
good luck
= )
2007-10-13 13:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by kerri c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋