My boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 months and everything is good ... He has a son who is so adoreable and i am cool with his family and everything ... Last nite we were supposed to go out and when i tried calling him , he wouldnt answer at all i tried again and then waited for him to call me back and he didnt so i waited 1:30 Am then sent a text telling him to just forget about tonight cause im tired of waiting and that i was very dissapointed in him... I went to bed and hoping he would call me and he didnt ...Now i was really pissed and my feelings were hurt cause i got all dressed up basicly for nothing ... I finally ended up calling him and he told me he had to watch his son last nite and i told him he should have called me and he said well it was a long story and i didnt wanna bug you with it ... He said that he tried calling me but it went to voicemail ...Hello? leave a freaken message ???? He said he wanted to see me tonite ...? whats up with him?????
2007-10-13 08:00:54 · 5 answers · asked by R.I.P ANDY ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm.. I don't know if it's just me.. But.. I really think that he may be trying to get away.. As.. Break it off..
You should really try to talk to him and find out what is happening.. Because sooner or later you'll see he is gone and maybe with someone else..
Best of luck.
~El Diablo~
2007-10-13 08:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by Diablo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, I wouldn't have waited up for him until 1:30. See him tonight and ask him to tell you the "long story". Obviously last night was a bad night for him as well, and he may have been too upset to discuss it, especially around his son. Although I agree; standing you up without a call at least saying he'd explain later was very wrong.
2007-10-13 15:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oliva, the only way to find out for certain is to ask him point blank what is going on. Hopefully he will be able to excuse his behaviour from last night and you two will get on the same track. Best of luck.
2007-10-13 15:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard as it may be...your going to have to realize that your 2nd best since you date a guy with a child.His kid will always be first in his life.Ease up a bit.
2007-10-13 15:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by Kitty? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything's not so good after 4 mths, huh? move on. i hope you're not pregnant.
"it's a long story" just means, "butt out of my business".
2007-10-13 15:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋