Ok i have been with my partner for 4 years and our sex life has seemed to stop! We had an amazing sex life before but now we don't seem to have time. How can we spice it up? We used to use toys, dress up etc but due to me gaining a bit of weight i don't feel comfortable anymore. Any ideas what we can do??
2007-10-13 09:26:16 · 10 answers · asked by hope 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
okey, plan an escape that your partner doesnt know about, secretly, have goodies, not the old ones new ones, plan something that your partner likes to do, show your partner that you care and that there is still new things you both can do together and have fun and have the romantic setting in the eve or at dawn, excite your partner to something spantaneous, keep them wondering whats is next. Generally, they will come on to you and your issues will melt away.
2007-10-13 09:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, my worrying thought is that yousay you have no time....How much do you both love each other? If you love each other to the point where you can see you holding your futures together then you NEED to find time for each other. Nothing should be more important then having quality time together. Take her out for a meal or to a quiet pub and have a chat. Explain that you miss her from not spending as much time together and agree to spend at least one night of the week for 'us' time. In this evening you can go on 'dates' or even just stay in watch a film have a bottle (or 3) of wine and ENJOY. If you are both not finding the time for each other then perhaps there is an underlying issue that you need to talk to each other about?? Hope it works out for you.x
2007-10-13 16:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Poppy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Set up something that's required with lights out, or him blind folded since you don't feel comfortable. You could just flat out use the blindfold OR you could both go to a bar late one night and "pick him up" and go park in a a dark spot and get it on in the back seat. It'll be dark but still fun.
2007-10-13 16:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by BlackDahlia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just make time for each other and do some of the things u have done in the past
2007-10-13 16:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by Backhoe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at Kama Sutra, Talk about it, light some sented candles, hmmm Choclate spread...
2007-10-13 16:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not build your rel;ationship on sex alone...it is planning for a guaranteed failure. You need to share all of your lives.
2007-10-14 03:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a gym and start working out. You'll lose weight and feel more confident in the bedroom.
2007-10-13 16:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by Cheryl W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make time to be with each other.
2007-10-13 16:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go on a diet
2007-10-13 16:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
watch a porno
2007-10-13 16:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by NIKKI 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋