I have class every Friday, I like this girl Amanda I talked to her after the first class and it went well. The second week I went to talk to her and she turned her face away. The third week, I asked her if she thinks I'm stalking her. Cause I wanted her to feel comfortable. She said, "no why would I think that I only see you once a week." So I was like alright cool. Then we talked about the class and the test. I asked her if she is seeing anyone and she said yes. Then I said "have good weekend, I see'll you next week" She said, "you to". I bought her a bracelet for her which I'm going to give her next Friday after class. Am I handling this well? What do you think she thinks of me?
2007-10-13 10:05:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she thinks you're a guy from class. compliment something about her here and there.
she's young, wait the boyfriend out.
when they break up give her a little time, let her know you're interested then give her the bracelette.
in the meantime, get her phone number, tell her you have to miss a day of class and ask her if you can copy her notes.
I once had a guy show up with an armful of stuff he bought at the mall for me, it totally freaked me out, since i did have a boyfriend and he knew it.
2007-10-20 08:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said she has a boyfriend. So by her saying this she is setting her boundaries to let you know how she feels about you. It sounds like she enjoys talking to you as A FRIEND. So a bracelet is an inappropriate gift at this point. The only gift you can give her is being a friend. Besides if she does in fact have a boyfriend then you don't really want to start something, do you? So with this being said, I suggest that you just keep talking to her every friend and not push. You never know all of a sudden she may not have a boy friend any more. Just give it time without pushing the hole going out point. So, no matter what it will turn out good. You will gain a friend or a girlfriend. I hope that I have helped.
2007-10-13 10:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Skitelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, some things you've done well, other things need some improvement. First of all, your being forthcoming is to your credit....not an easy thing to do combatting nervousness and fear of rejection, so good for you. The "stalker" comment was a bit much because she probably wasn't thinking anything of the sort until you planted that notion in her head by bringing it up in conversation. How does that work? Well, consider you're at a hospital having tests run, and in the midst of all the "doctor-speak" that no one understands, the physician uses the words "death" and "cancer" to explain to you what's NOT happening. What are YOU thinking about? (Why the hell did he mention it if that's NOT what I have?) So, for future reference, don't bring up things (especially negative things) that clearly don't apply....folks will fixate on that and miss everything else you say. Next, having told you she's seeing someone, buying her a bracelet seems a bit "over the top"...and while I'm sure you're a great guy, that gesture may make you look like a jerk. How do you think that will be interpreted by anyone (like her boyfriend, maybe) who happens to see it? She probably won't/can't accept it just to keep peace within her relationship, so I would re-think that idea. Take those great strides forward you've made and sink that energy into a new target. Or wait to see if this target becomes available later on, if you wish, but don't make any further overtures towards her right now...or you'll begin to appear like the very thing you said you weren't. Good luck to you.
2007-10-13 10:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might scare her away with the gift. It's a nice thought but she is seeing someone else and it could make her uncomfortable. I personally wouldn't want that kind of attention from another guy since I'm in a serious relationship. I don't really know what she thinks. It's hard to tell that. Just talk to her. At least if you're honest with her she'll probably try to be honest in return.
2007-10-13 10:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by Rockit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give her the bracelet! it seems like you barely know each other, plus she said she's seeing someone. the last thing you want is to make this girl feel awkward. give it some time, try to run into her outside of class. get to know her on a friend level instead of a classmate level and let it grow from there. please don't give her the bracelet yet...it will scare her off.
2007-10-13 10:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by Bre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she's seeing someone, then giving her a bracelet would seem kind of obsessive. You never want to make a girl thinks you are obsess with her and let her play with your mind. If i was you, i would stay far away from her, and only talk to her when she comes talk to me.
2007-10-13 10:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by NBL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she told you she was talking to someone, then either she is or she just doesn't like you like that. Buying her a bracelet is kinda weird. She'll probly think you stalking her now.
2007-10-13 10:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give her a bracelet if she's seeing someone and don't ask her if she thinks your stalking her 'cause then she will start to look for signs of u stalking her. if u like her, then get to kno her before getting her gifts or asking her out.
2007-10-13 10:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by danca_grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is seeing someone i definitely wouldn't give her the bracelet you got her, especially since you guys don't even seem close at all. it could also cause you problems with the person that she is seeing, i just don't think that is a good idea at all. if she was interested in you she probely wouldn't have told you that she was seeing someone else.
2007-10-13 10:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by hecallsmelove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Total stalker. You're buying her something, after she said she's seeing somene? Even if she wasn't seeing someone, you only buy gifts for women you're dating, or in your immediate family.
2007-10-13 10:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by Jonathan B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋