Flowers or not?
Should I try for a kiss if things end well?
Do I need to walk her to her front door when I drop her off?
2007-10-13 07:52:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Yes, flowers.
2. Yes, but only on the cheek. (Unless she wants more.)
3. Yes! It's only polite.
2007-10-13 07:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bring flowers. That's somewhat corny on a first date. Yes you should walk her to her front door. And you should only attempt to kiss her if things went well during your date. You need to read her body signs. If she doesn't just say "Okay, I had a nice night, bye" and then go inside the house, that's good :)
If she stands at the door and is kind of looking like, "okay, what next?" That might be the time. But don't do it too fast. Make sure she has time to say, "no" or turn her head if she wants to. You don't want to make her feel uncomfortable. Make sure you smell really good. Girls cannot resist a nice smelling man. And make eye contact with her at all times. Good luck with your first date. I know it can be a little bit stressful.. :)
2007-10-13 14:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by Nic Nac 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Flowers are for special occasions, not first dates. However, a small single flower with a small stem may work! Don't try for a kiss.
You both will sense the right time for a kiss! Walk to the front door...yes!
2007-10-13 15:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
buy her one beautiful big flower - you don't want her to carry a bouquet through the night unless you are picking her up at her place, then bring a nice bouquet - she'll be able to put it in the water; I think a kiss thing is really play by ear, you cannot decide before the date on this, if you click and the night was romantic enough then it might be acceptable, let her take the lead on this one; yes, please walk her - it is a nice thing to do; if for some reason you don't walk her to the door, the don't leave until you see her enter to maker sure she is safe; also don't talk about your exes, religion, politics or kids.
2007-10-13 14:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by mishkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't bring Flowers, so soon. Nor, would I attempt to kiss if things go well. If I were a guy, I would simply wait and see.
I would certainly walk her to the door. I believe, that is safe enough, after all in you may want another date, or not with this female. Just play it by ear.
You don't want to pounce on her. She may not like it. Take it slow and easy. I hope you and your date, have fun.
2007-10-13 14:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by That one 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do NOT try to kiss her on the first night. Be noble, gallant, and a gentleman. Open doors for her, have good table manners, compliment the way she looks, and don't spend too much time talking about yourself. Walk her to her door when you take her home. Oh, and clean the inside of your car before you pick her up. And be sure to have breath mints! Have fun!
2007-10-13 14:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by Angelique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skip the flowers for now. You'll know if she wants to kiss or not, her actions will help you figure it out. See how the date ends, it will help you decide your next move. Yeah, walk her to the door, gives you more time to talk if all's well. Who knows? She may even ask you in just to hang out.
2007-10-13 14:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by zipzeronada 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK, flowers - yes, a polite kiss on the cheek if all goes well, you should read her body language to tell if this will be appropriate. DO NOT be forceful and do not try to snog or slobber on her unless she encourages you.
ALSO
1 DO NOT TALK ABOUT YOUR EXES/ CONQUESTS
2 DO NOT SAY DEROGATORY THINGS ABOUT OTHERS
3 LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS
4 DON'T STARE IN A FRIGHTENING WAY
5 ENSURE YOU HAVE PERFECT HYGIENE
6 DON'T GET DRUNK
7 DON'T DRINK HER DRINK WHEN SHE GOES TO THE LOO
8 DON'T EAT HER DINNER WHEN SHE ISN'T LOOKING!
9 DONT TRY TO TOUCH WHEN IT ISNT WANTED - READ THE SIGNS!
Just a few things I witnessed guys doing during my dating career, which WENT DOWN LIKE A LEAD BALLOON with me.
GOOD LUCK , hope it goes well.
2007-10-13 15:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by Siamese Triplets 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
flowers definately. open ALL doors for her, even the car door. think of topics to talk about so there isnt that awkward silence. if you are going out to eat, dont be a cheap tipper. order appetizers or a dessert. compliment her. at end of night walk her to her door, kiss her on the hand, and tell her thanks for such a great evening.. thats really charming. (yeah kinda corny, but thats the kind of stuff my boyfriend did for me, and won my heart from the first night we met) just be a gentleman!!!!
2007-10-13 14:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flowers would be nice, but necessary.
walk to to her door when you drop her off, yes!
for the kiss.. it depends on the girl. it's always nice to wait though, for the perfect moment. she might not wanna rush things.
2007-10-13 14:57:03 · answer #10 · answered by Pooch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋