There is no chance i would ever get into a relationship with you?

Question

im very happy in my new relationship and there is no chance i would ever get into a relationship with you?
i never want to c you or hear you again.thats what HE said after 2 years of using me and playing me along,giving me hopes for a relationship and latering me..no one has ever told me such a horrible thing,especially when i have done nothing wrong..except from chasing him cos i loved him.how can i get over it..keeps playing in my mind.why did he have to be so cruel?

Answer 1

You let him do this. If you slept with him, you did do something wrong.#

Answer 2

You yourself said that you chased him. He likely tried to let you know nicely, but when you would not give up, then he had to get cruel so that maybe it would sink in that he is happy and you should give up already and leave him alone. This is what it sounds like to me. If he was so bad, then why are you still chasing him? Surely you do not think that he will get any better. Just keep reminding yourself of all of the bad things he has done and said, and tell yourself that you do not need that in your life. You deserve better than that. Do not contact him any more for any reason. The less contact, the easier it will be for you to move on. New makeover and wardrobe will help wonders. Get out of the house and find something that you enjoy doing that does not remind you of him. He has moved on, and you should too. You should not let him hold you back any longer than he already has. Take control of yourself and refuse to allow him to control your emotions any longer. Take his power away.

Answer 3

Rejection always hurts.

Get rid of anything you have that reminds you of him. If you don't want to burn it or throw it out -put it in a box and put it away.

Make changes. Sometimes a new hair cut or color makes me feel better about myself. Sort of a new look...new start sort of thing. If there is something you always wanted to learn to do - find a class and enroll. (I took up swing dancing after my last heart break). If anything - it gives me somewhere to go one night a week and I'm not at home missing him or feeling a hole in my life.

Keep in mind that how he handled the situation was cruel. However, you now know exactly where he stands and that there is no hope for a relationship. Break off all contact with him - you will not be able to maintain a friendship with this person. If he is to blind or stupid to see the special person that you are -then you can't help him and it's his loss.

Give it time - eventually the hurt will go away and the hole will heal.

I'm sorry that your going through this. It sucks rocks.

Answer 4

Face the reality that he's a heartless creature who has been keeping you as a spare tyre until he finds his dream girl. As you are grieving now, rem you need to move on with your life. This ordeal teaches you not to be so gullible anymore and be more cautious of men. Fear not, you deserve a better guy than this jerk. One day he will come crawling back to you when he's been dumped too.

Answer 5

I've been through much worst I assure you!

Stay away from him! Don't make contact! bastards like him give guys a bad name!

Remember how cruel you were treated so don't fall for him ever again! It's his lost you know! Don't give him anymore chance! God will punish this kind of arseholes

That's what I did! Wish someone better will find you!

Answer 6

Tragedies happen. What're you gonna do, give up? Quit? No. I realize now that when your heart breaks, you gotta fight like hell to make sure you’re still alive. 'Cause you are, and that pain you feel: it's life. The confusion and fear.. that's there to remind you that somewhere out there is something better. And that something is worth fighting for.

Answer 7

He obviously is not worth your time and effort. Move on by keeping yourself pre occupied with things other than him. He is a loser without a heart. You are better off with someone else. There is more to life than hanging on to something already dead.