What positions (sexual) would be preferable for least amount of pain!?! I don't wanna just jump in bed with him and have him shove it in me from behind and me regretting it forever!!! He may miss and hit my pooper! You know how guys can be, I've read about it that they may try that. Thank you.
2007-10-13 03:34:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
missionary would probably be best at first, and if he respects you he'll pause when you tell him it hurts and he'll go as slow as YOU want... don't forget foreplay... especially on you b/c if you're not physically ready, as in, down there, it'll hurt a hell of a lot...
btw.... maybe you should wait until you're certain it's what you want, not just something you're thinking about...
use protection!!!
2007-10-13 03:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to do that? Don't you even consider marriage. Just think, what is the only thing on this earth, that a women can give a man, that a man can't give himself? Virginity is such a precious thing, wouldn't your future husband think more of you knowing no other man has been there? Wouldn't God reward you better also? Don't lower yourself just to please a boy, or friends, or cause everyone else is. Be better than that. Be better than everyone. I give you a big S A L U T E for being a virgin. Please don't change until your older, and meet the man of your dreams. He's out there, and he's looking for you also.
2007-10-13 03:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use condom with lubrication or add some. Take it VERY slowly! If it hurts stop, pull back a bit and give some time for your body to adjust.
Most people would opt for missionary, but there is something to be said about woman-on-top. In it, you are sliding down onto him and can control for yourself how deep you want to go.
Oh, and I wouldn't worry too much about the anal thing. Your bf would likely be overjoyed just with the regular sex, especially if he is also a virgin. (Not all guys are into anal, btw.) You should however make it quite clear that his respect of your comfort and boundaries will be highly correlated with any future opportunities he will get of being intimate with you.
2007-10-13 05:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope this isn't a real question, because if it is you aren't ready to have sex. Any position will hurt pretty bad the first time because your partner is going to break your hymen, which is a thin piece of tissue inside your vagina. You will bleed and be sore for awhile.
Boys don't "miss." And any boy that you are worried will just "shove it into you" you don't know well enough to be having sex with anyways.
You need to talk to your parents, or a doctor, or another responsible adult that you trust and actually learn about sex, and stds. And you definetly need to be on birth control. bottom line you are not ready to have sex.
2007-10-13 03:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by Teha4 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just stick with missionary position to start with then build up from there.
Wouldn't worry about anal - just guide him in and work together.
Wear protection though!
2007-10-13 03:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by tayhay 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
firstly hahaha, pooper, but serously missionary and for gods sake use protection
2007-10-13 03:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Ruby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great question to ask your gynecologist when you go to see her to put you on the pill so you don't get knocked up.
2007-10-13 03:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by Boots 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're still a child..... dont waste ur virginity... once youve done that there is no turning back now...... Think wisely....
many girls experienced that, after giving up her virignity to his boyfriend, their boyfriend suddenly leaves them or just have them for sex u know.... think for a while...... its too early..
2007-10-13 03:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by idol 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
please don't do something a you will regret after,if your boyfriend love you he should know waiting ,when ur ready for that...
2007-10-13 03:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by margo 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
him on top
2007-10-13 03:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by ~* Daydreamer *~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋