Why are men so demanding?

Question

I've got my PhD and got hit by men in their sixties who lived in
trailers, loved the way I looked, loved my degree and expected me to improve their lives, so they hit on me as "I am 65 and live in a trailer. I love the way you look and I love it that you have PhD. "When will you move here and buy me a house?"
I was stupefied, but being a very modest girl, I thought it was
because I was an average looking thin girl, so these men (30+ years older than me) thought that as I was not good looking, I would be desperate.
Then my friend graduated from university. She is stunning blond with blue eyes, and even women admit it. What do you think? She was hit on old ugly men, high school drop outs, in trailers, blatantly asking her what amount of money she'd spend on them if they agree to be with her.
Why are men so demanding? These men have nothing to offer: no good looks, no good life, no youth... What made them belive that they deserve a stunning twenty something blond with a degree?

I mean, if some super man, a CEO of some International hit on me I would have been extremely flattered, and would have tried to please him, but these men takes everything for granted, why? What do they have to offer?
Please, no rude replies.

Answer 1

It's two things from what I can see.

Egos. Nuff said.

And Practicality.

I'm always amazed by the number of men that think that it doesn't hurt to try (after all - they're only wasting time and breath) and be turned down than not! After all, someone with no confidence might agree and set them up for life!

Answer 2

Hi there, A womens age may have some to do with it but I am here to tell you it must be a genetic trait. I am 65, get guessed in my late fourtys often and I am having a similar wake up call. Own my own home etc. and most of the men I meet want me to make their lifes better. Let's marry our fortunes and live happily ever after on the mans terms? Now whyever would I want to give that kind of control to anyone that obvious?
It is interesting to read that you are already having this problem, oh! and then there are the young ones who think an older woman is really going to be grateful! But let's remember we females do have our own breed of women called gold diggers!

Answer 3

Tell me: What do the men that these women on here usually date look like, act like; and tell me the level of their education? You just graduated to the next level of income, your echelons of taste and class distinctions haven't changed. The same men that were after you before are going to pursue you now; it's just that you feel as if you deserve better because you've worked on the principles of historical knowledge; in practical terms, nothing has changed! There are certain types of women both degreed and with little or no formal education that never get approached; they are virtually unapproachable. And, there are still others that carry themselves in such a way that every bum on the planet feels comfortable asking for a ride in their Benz...you just happen to be in the latter group, sorry!

Answer 4

They asked you out or let it be known that they were interested in you - you politely turn them down.

Dirty old men hit on/ flirt with young women - it's what they do.

Move on - grow up- get over it and get over yourself.