2007-10-13 03:26:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No she is not cheating, she should be open and tell her mate how she wants to be touched, caressed, speed and tone of voice.
Most males do not know how to touch or even treat them.
If she is doing it herself then she wants more out of sex than just do it and roll over
2007-10-13 03:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Herman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if it was obsessive - like always thinking of a particular guy, someone she knows at work or a friend for example, i would probably question what was really going on. but in the normal scheme of things i would not consider it cheating to randomly think of someone else and do that. but no i dont think cheating is just physically being with someone else - if that were true, i would not have left my ex for carrying on an online affair with a woman he did not meet in person. he was spending time with her (online) instead of me, so i considered that cheating. just for example.
2007-10-13 11:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kez 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well some people might say that it is cheating but I don't think it is. If your a woman and thinking of some other guys abbs or chest over you while doing your thing turns you on then so be it. And if while with your partner and seeing his face or things he may say or do turns you on then thats cool to. thats why we have our thoughts and imagination. some things are ok to keep to your self. if it makes yo feel guilty doing it then you are cheating in your own mind. thats just how i see it because i do the same thing. theres no shame in it because most people do it. I don't know if they fantasize of other people other than their partner but they masterbate.
2007-10-13 10:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by neverlie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no not at all is it cheating, u need something to spark ur desires. masterbation is an excellant form of sexual relief without anykind of cheating. sometimes i'll think about a female movie star while i crank one off, and well whats the chances of me having an affair with her. so relax and enjoy urself. good luck to u
2007-10-13 11:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all.
Women and men fantasize about other things during masturbation and sex.
it could be a famous person, or someone they know.
But its harmless and definitely not cheating.
Its just extra stimulation for the mind.
Some women and men fantasize about the same sex...it doesn't make them gay either!!!
2007-10-13 10:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it isn't just physical, it is emotional as well. Some say it would be considered cheating, but i wouldn't say masturbating is cheating but thinking of someone while doing it, i would say it is emotional and their for cheating. Just me some would disagree.
2007-10-13 10:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, she isn't cheating. Fantasy is fine!
I personally believe cheating is only physical but that's just me!
2007-10-13 10:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by tayhay 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, only if you leave your mate for your fantazy
2007-10-13 10:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by LadyLove 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it's perfectly normal to fantasize.
2007-10-13 10:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it doesnt matter where she gets her appetite from as long as she goes home to you for dinner
2007-10-13 10:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by benjamin r 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋