some one at my school died i didnt really know her dut we hung out some times her name was Rochelle she got hit by a car i really miss her what should i do?
2007-10-13 02:40:06 · 31 answers · asked by Clara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh wow. That's got to be tough. I never knew anyone who died, but I know it hurts. I don't have much to say for what you should do. Is there anything you really can do?
You can pay your respects and try to move on. Try to live life like she would have, but if that's too painful, just remember her. Not what happened to her, but her.
I feel for you, and I hope you get along okay...
2007-10-13 02:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Clara, I'm sorry for your loss. What can you do? Remember the good times you had hanging out with her. If you can, pray. Ask God to give you peace in the knowledge that Rochelle is in a better place. Keep her in your memory.
Take comfort from your other friends, too. Enjoy their company. Hope this helps.
2007-10-13 09:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by SKCave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to feel sad if someone you know died. Even if you're really not close. Someone I knew also died several years ago, I was sad but I did not do something that I would have wanted to do. I reallized the things I should've done after I learned that she was already buried. So, these are the things I thought I should've done for her. First, I should've called their home to ask her parents or brothers how they are and what happened and if I could go to the funeral. Second, I should've attended the funeral. Just to show her she was thought of and should've shown my small support to her family. Lastly, I should've gone to her burial. Well, those are the things I thought I would like to do for her or if that sad thing would happen again.
Remember, only God determines if it is the right time for all of us to die. Maybe, it was the right time for her. Condolence
2007-10-13 09:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry... She is in a better place now! Why don't you invite all your other friends and have a quiet party in her honor. Or, maybe just something more simple. How about writing down all the good times you had in a journal?? Just pray to God to take care of her. Talk to a friend or gaurdian about your feelings. Remember someone important to you never dies, becuase they stay right there in your heart. Everything will be fine... Good Luck*
2007-10-13 10:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by tara*A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really sad. The way you are feeling is perfectly natural and will change over time. Don't ever bottle up your feelings. Talk to others that knew her. If it is possible go to her funeral. Perhaps you can go with friends that knew her. You could always have your own sort of memorial for her. It doesn't have to be religious. Some people find writing, singing and poetry to be helpful.
2007-10-13 09:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by Bee W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when loved one pass a way the only thing u shouldnt do is cry. Think about the good things that happen to her. Dont ever face the bad things.Love her.Im sure she is in a great place rite now and is happy u still care for her man.sorry aboutt ur friend.
2007-10-13 09:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by cuteness63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to grieve. Its hard to lose those you care about and the loss someone so young touches everyone. I'm sure if you talk to others who knew her you will find they feel the same way you do.
Time is a great healer. You will always miss your friend, but it will become easier to remember the good things and remember her with a smile rather than tears.
2007-10-13 09:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by welshgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend died 3 years ago from a heart attack at 28 years old. It gets easier with time. Just remember the good times you shared with her and never forget her. Remember when a friend or family member passes on it's not goodbye just see you later.
2007-10-13 09:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by gijoe812002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the school counselor. Talk to other friends. Talk to your parents. Talk to a pastor. Talk about your feelings to any of the people that I mentioned. It will take time to get over losing an acquaintance. But since it seems you guys weren't really very close, it won't take as long as if you'd lost a sibling or a parent - or your best friend.
2007-10-13 09:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by JD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss. With time you will be able to handle you grief better. The psychologists say grief comes in stages & the last one is acceptance. You really should talk to someone - a religious leader you trust, school counselor would be able to help, your parents?
2007-10-13 09:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋