and expect him to understand all your emotional baggage, when we men do it then its considered being weak
Why is women want men to be sensitive and when we are then its considered weak
They wanna change men but when we do they think we are push over, they want me to agree with them but when its my turn to get a little compassion they go blasting
Im just angry, the honest truth is, Man is there to balance women and women is there to balance men, and if you try to change yourself for the other, you screw up the whole balance and they will walk all over you,,
You know whats the funniest thing is ? now that i dont care, there is tons of women around me and they say im changed, yup now i understand it takes jerks to make a women respect the nice guy in her life, Im done with the nice guy bit and im enjoying the jerk phase,,,
2007-10-13 02:47:11 · 10 answers · asked by Hindu-Atheist-Rebel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats the brutal truth guys,,be a jerk and keep the women who trully appreciates you as a human being, instead of expecting every man to respect her as a women, one more advice, not all women are worthy of the respect you give them, like men, there is gonna be s*uts, wh*res and such,,, i thank all these women actually,,
2007-10-13 02:48:57 · update #1
Ah- bless !!
2007-10-13 02:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Common thread in both phases. You think you have to BE something for the girls. Like being yourself would never work or is just not considered. Why wouldn't someone like you just for who you are, warts and all? Your not perfect and neither are any girls. All just people. Don't judge your behaviors as nice or jerky and just express yourself, your anger, your passion, your frustration, your joy. Take the chance of letting someone see the real you. If you do this here's what'll happen. Some people will like you and some people won't, and nobody will be happy with you ALL the time. But that's the way it is now anyway. You won't loose a thing. But you will gain something golden, intimacy. You will have the knowledge that someone likes you and accepts you for you. And that is one of the greatest feelings in the world, to be truly connected to someone.
2007-10-14 06:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by LG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had it happen to me! I started dating this girl with massive emotional baggage from her last boyfriend who is the world's biggest jerk of all time. I was nice, caring, and supportive. This guy beat her, cheated on her, and emotionally abused her for all the time that they had dated. Then she left me for him after about 9 months into our relationship. The truth is that there are some women out there that love the abuse and drama. It's just best to steer clear of them. I how ever would not change my good nature into being a jerk. There are women out there who will appreciate you for you. It's all part of the search for the one that will make us happy.
2007-10-13 03:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What you have described applies only to those women who don't appreciate the close ones around them and only want attention from the rebels who treat them as trash.
Good women don't do this. They truly appreciate their bfs/partners amd contribute as much as their partners to a meaningful relationship. The womenyou have been together with may be those who belong to the abovementioned type and you must really feel good that you're now free from them. The only disadvantage is that you're suffering from a phobia now so you feel repressed. Don't worry, once you really meet a nice lady who willappreciate you for who you are, your heart will truly melt and you will remove this masquerade and reveal your true self, someone who really respects and dotes on his love.
2007-10-13 02:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lost-Hurt-Disappointed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww come on. I'm sure there are plenty of nice girls that would love to find a nice guy. Ever thought that maybe you just hang around a certain type of woman.....the overly self-involved type?? Doesn't sound like your relationships with the opposite sex have been very give-and-take.
I agree with you on one point. Too many women let guys get away with disrespecting them. It's silly and dumb, and I don't understand it, but whatever.
Anyway, good luck with the jerk-being thing. Hope it works out for you. Maybe someday you'll get over all of this, get back to just being yourself, meet some like-minded women and see that you're just making a bad generalization.
2007-10-13 03:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by CMG 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think it is as much about being a jerk, but about being deadly honest and true to yourself, setting boundaries on what you will or won't tolerate, and not being a doormat. I think you don't let anyone walk on you, disprespect you, or mistreat you. You deserve a great woman. When you find her, you will know because she will be an adult with the ability to say what she means, ask for what she needs, treat your needs as a priority, negotiate when she disagrees, and love with all her heart. Until then, be a jerk to anyone who thinks they can take advantage or walk on you. I like a man who knows who he is, takes full responsibility for his actions, is kind-hearted and compassionate and who has the ability to give and recieve love. I like a man who knows it is okay to be human. I haven't liked jerks since I was like 12.
2007-10-13 02:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Jerks tend to go out with jerks.
2007-10-13 02:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by Piztaker 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
why do guys need hot girls in their life and look for pretty/beautiful girls when the fun is over?
2007-10-13 03:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
women are just weird....but not as weord and disguting as being a homosexual...yuk
You just have to deal with them....somehow
2007-10-13 02:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by My pic looks good 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Snigger,
2007-10-13 02:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋