2007-10-13 19:41:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Anticipate his needs and then take care of them without being asked. Respect him if he wants to be alone or needs time to unwind after work (don't bombard him the minute he walks through the door with problems you had during the day..) Keep the kitchen stocked with his favorite drinks and food. Make dinner for him.... etc. Neckrubs, etc...
2007-10-13 19:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to be perfect hon- just do your best. Being a hosuewife is a VERY stressful job, esp if you have children in the mix too. Don't let all these gal's comments make it seem demeaning or unimportant to be a housewife though- and don;t for a second think that your husband can't hel either. Best thing is to work with him to build your marraige up, and the rest will take care of itself.
2007-10-14 02:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one can be perfect, but the fact that you want to be should be enough. It sounds like your husband is a lucky guy. Just be your kind caring loving self and I'm sure the rest will fall into place. Don't be angry at each other and don't be afraid to talk things out. Remember you are made to be one flesh after marriage so you need to be understanding of one another in all things. Most of all you need to study the bible together and follow it's principals for marriage and you will be as close to one another as humanly possible. God bless.
2007-10-14 02:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok this is 2007 not the 50's marriage is a partnership you dont need to cater to your hubby unless you are in a special relationship where you and he need that sort of thing in which case you might need to ask him what he wants done
p.s perfection is hard if not impossible to attain
2007-10-14 02:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by see_jane2003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, don't look for perfect. it doesn't exist anywhere. second, just be sure to put the relationship in its proper perspective, meaning that it stays the most important thing in your life. but this is not a one way street. hubby needs to be doing the same thing as well. the best and strongest relationships are the ones that share their lives, good and bad, without one dictating to the other.
2007-10-14 03:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by The Beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't put that standard on yourself just be the best you can be! My mother in law told me that she made sure to always look her best and to have her house show offable and to have her own hobbies so that no matter how many women her husband worked with he would always be happy to come home to her. :) they have a very happy relationship...she has definatly given 100 percent of herself and he in turn does the same (she said it wasn't always this way though) Basically all a guy wants is for his girl to be happy and have a smile on her face when he walks through the door and they want attention :)......thats all I can tell ya....just don't lose yourself in trying to be perfect. Your you and thats perfect for the world :)
2007-10-14 03:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by Ria B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cook, clean, listen and have sex... its that easy. UNLESS he doesn't live up to your expectations of how he should be as a husband... then you will just feel taken for granted. It's a partnership that should have been discussed before marriage. You should already have known what he expects and can you live up to it... and vice versa. Love does not conquer all when what you need is your man to help when the chips are down.
Edit...
lol box of rain!!! You are easily pleased indeed!!!
2007-10-14 02:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by Shazela 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Run his bath water
From what Ive read here it seems to work LOL.
Nah in reality you could do everything for him make sure he never lifts a finger, but remember you need to keep yourself happy too.
My advice keep the home clean, cook his meals keep him satisfied in the bedroom and most of all take care of yourself.
2007-10-14 02:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by blueeyd_princess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as "perfect"....and a woman shouldnt cater to a mans needs...it should be 50/50 in all relationships.
2007-10-14 02:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by deleon_jenifer 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
1. Don't talk so much
2. Make him a sandwich
and
3. Play with his b4lls!
Enough said.
2007-10-14 02:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by Missy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋