my dads friend has a son and we are friends. we work together and he asks me for hugs all the time what does this mean? he hugs me so tight and feels like he doesnt wanna let go lolz..and what does it mean when he asks you for hugs like 3 times in one day..we work with eachother but are friends and 17 years old...
2007-10-13 15:47:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i think somebody has a crush on you lol yay! unless u don't like him that way or think he's weird in which case my condolences lol.
2007-10-13 15:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-22 07:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit and have a talk with him. Tell him that you would like him to explain why he feels that hugging if part of a friendship. Tell him you are uncomfortable with the hugging especially at work. Usually work places frown on this type of behaviour because it is inappropriate. Be sure he understands that you are not mad at him. Explain that your continued friendship is more important to you than sooooooo many hugs. Just in case you may want to tell him that hugs don't provide you the emotional support he may think it does. It makes you uncomfortable. If he doesn't"get it" this tell him to back off "duffuse" This could lead up to staking especially if you find someone special, my daughter says avoid and ignore him. If you don't want to talk to him.
2007-10-13 16:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by wenver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im actually in a situation pretty close to urs but hes older then me and he kissed(cheek only) i suppose i have a crush as i think u may as well but perhaps its not best to asume and maybe u should just ask even though it would take a hell of alote of guts. Or u could flirt with him and see how he responds first and make him aware like u like him and see where he goes from there.
2007-10-13 16:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by ai_himitsu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. It is likely that he has a crush on you, but not definite. There's no way to tell for sure except to ask. But taking advice from here works to =P
2007-10-13 15:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes body contact with you and he's probably feeling you up. And you are letting him get away with it. A good way to stop it is to fart everytime he hugs you.
2007-10-13 16:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he hugs so much and tell him how you feel about it.
2007-10-13 16:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think someone likes you, but if it bothers you, say something to him. You can always write a note if you feel to embarrased to ask something like that.
2007-10-13 15:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by tiffany w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's gay...lolz dude he is so gay!!! dont hug him no more...unless you are
2007-10-13 16:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by MisSunDerSt0od 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋