Yea, last night I went out with a friend, but he got preoccupied with playin darts. I was sitting at the end of the bar watching people and this crazy pretty and drunk girl I made an aquaintance with came to sit by me, so every freakin guy in the bar with a hard on is coming twords us. This one guy in particular was a little rough with her and thinking he could do whatever he wanted cuz it was "his birthday". She was welcoming the roughness, you know? I just wanted to leave. So everytime I got up to leave, he would push me back down in my seat. At one point he grabbed my hair, pulled my head back and tried to make me kiss him. I just kept turing my head away. He kept sayin he was gonna **** us. Of course, eveyone else was drunk and knew this guy, so they didn't do anything. When I told my "friends" afterward they laughed.
I need to tell my boyfriend who is living 16oo miles away from me cuz it feels like a lie not to tell him and that is how he will take it. Hes gonna freak. WDID??
2007-10-13 15:24:44 · 11 answers · asked by talonz_lady02 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him the truth, you didn't do anything wrong. You avoided the bastard and never kissed him.
2007-10-13 15:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
costly buddy, i think of U could needless to say tell ur bf bout the region. I see what form of guy he's and issues gonna be undesirable if he hear from a chum it is extremely not you. yet u rather don't have the fault then not something to be afraid if he understand u sufficient to be with U for 5 years then will understand, he could renowned that there may be worse issues contained in the relation and existence has its sturdy and undesirable moments. If I have been in his place i might by no skill enable human beings to insult my gf. tell him as sincerly as u can and if u'd like, u could make it very properly with some buddy of the two. i'm particular he isn't gonna get freak.
2016-10-06 21:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u should do is tell ur BF the truth. Honesty's the best policy! But don't be like- hey (BF's name goes here) and u tell him what happened
be somthing like: Hi (BF's name goes here) how r u? i just wanted u to know that yesterday (or watever day u went to the bar) i went to a bar w/ a friend, but he/she was too occupied at playing darts, and there was this one drunk man that was making he kiss him. and each time i tried to get up, he would pull my head back and make me kiss him. But i kept turning my head away.when i told my friends, they just laughed. I'm sorry. I hope that u will forgive me, and i'm just glad that it's out of my system. I have no more secrets from u (hopefully u don't)
just say something like that
hope it helps!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-10-13 15:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by ~我愛飛輪海和王力宏~ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Give me a f***in' break!!! Its a long distance relationship you're talking about. As far as I'm concerned you have no boyfriend. As for what happened at the bar, it wasn't your fault, therefore he doesn't need to know what happened. Now whether or not you should have been at the bar is for you to think about, but this is not one of those dishonesty situations that need to be revealed.
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2007-10-13 15:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Glenn Johnson 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like you have some really "great" friends. You are going to have to tell him, but be ready for him to tell you not to be around these guys, and not to go to this bar again. You have to tell him in a way that is going to reduce the seriousness of what happened,or he will fell agitated, because he isn't there to help you.
2007-10-13 15:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
What are your real reasons for wanting to tell him?
A Jealous reaction, verifying he loves you?
You want him to know some obnoxious drunk found you attractive?
Since according to you, you did nothing wrong, and he's 1600 miles away and can do nothing about it, why would you tell him. Except for selfish insecurity reasons.
2007-10-13 15:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by ReBelle 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You don't have to tell your boyfriend and don't if he'll freak, because there is nothing he can do about it now. Actually what you should have done is tell the bouncer or the manager and had the guy thrown out! You don't have to play the victim card - stand up for yourself!
2007-10-13 15:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by My 2 Cents.... 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just tell him the truth. If you tell him, he will think you are an honest, trusting person! He knows you didn't do anything. AND if you don't tell him, and he finds out later, he will be mad and think you lied to him for a reason! Just be honest and he will be glad!
2007-10-13 15:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Mary Jane's Last Dance 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
start with I really screwed this is what happened.be honest and let him know nothing else happened.than before he can say it let him know it was a mistake that won't happen again you learned a valuable lesson and how you wish he had been there because you was so scared and you know he wouldn't have allowed any harm to have come to you.
stroke his ego
2007-10-13 15:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kirk K 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i wouldn't tell him cz as a guy i would get kinda peaced off and if i ever see the guy i would get in to fight with him
2007-10-13 15:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋