please help me,, in our country we know nothing about sex before marriage,, just the general idea ,,i was married to a man i used to konw him for 1 year ,, but after marriage i discovered that he can't..you understand me ...i'm still vigin i got divorce,,,,,and now i want you please tell me more about it .. i don't want watch porn ,, and don't want ask one i know,, so if you please tell me how long it take to get satisfied and how long for a man to get in the lady before he reach the satisfaction point and aslo the lady...i hope you can get my questions,, thanks in advance..
2007-10-13 15:27:37 · 4 answers · asked by nana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is different for every woman - how long it takes her to reach satisfaction. It also depends on how sensitive the man is and whether he is willing to help her reach that satisfaction.
Unfortunately most men don;t know anything or at least not much about pleasing us and they have to be taught what is good for us. You have to be willing to tell him what you like and what you don't like or he is never going to know
As for the man, some me can reach satisfaction very quickly and it is over for you before it begins. A really sensitive lover will wait and please his wife before he goes inside her and joins the two of you
Good luck in finding a sensitive husband. And she is right, if you had no sex you should have had an annulment and not a divorce.
2007-10-13 15:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by mn lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man can reach satisfaction in minutes and is variable sometimes to when he last had satisfaction or other things on his mind. Some men can go longer but you still measure it in minutes.
From what I understand, women go from not thinking about sex to ready for penetration in a much longer time frame. As my SO describes this as "warming her up" (a.k.a. foreplay) and that there is a time when she NEEDS me in her....that is when she is ready for penetration. Some women can achieve satisfaction with penetration from time to time but most rely on clitoral stimulation for that. Hopefully you can be satisfied before he is but you both should try different ways to make sure you both enjoy the time together.
2007-10-13 22:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by GK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men can get inside you before you are ready
you might not be satisfied unless you get to know your body...
and you should have "annulled" your marriage if you never had sex...
2007-10-13 22:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kol sana wanty taiaba AHDEEE ( calm down lol )
2007-10-13 22:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by michael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋