Whenever he sees me like when I come downstairs he takes out an infatable toy penis and hits me then spits on me....HELP!
IM NOT JOKING.
2007-10-13 15:32:05 · 16 answers · asked by Jhhuuu H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
MY DAD IS THE SCHOOL COUNCILER, AND PRINCIPAL!!!
2007-10-13 15:48:41 · update #1
Congrats! you just told everybody on here! Don't let it escalate you could be in danger . tell him you don't appreciate it and its not making you 'strong' or a 'tougher' person. his behavior is inexcusable!!! tell someone else and someone else and someone else. Over and over. You don't need to put up with his abuse. Yes, he is abusing you mentally and emotionally, physically, too. go to a drop in stay at a friend's house and mention it to their parents. It is a long road, but you'll get there!
2007-10-14 04:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by don't be a hater 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you have to tell someone. I gather that your mother won't do anything about it so you need to find someone you trust at school or church and tell them about it privately. I'm no psychologist, but this sounds like the kind of behavior that might get worse.
If that last sentence is true, then you really are in a quandary because school is where most people would think of going for help. However, there are other resources avaioable including your church, which I mentioned earlier, child protective services, the police and organizations that fight domestic abuse (not just husbands beating wives, by the way.
Someone else said start telling people who can do something. Keep telling them until you get some help. That's probably the best advice you have received. Never give up.
2007-10-13 22:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by Artful 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This definitely needs to be reported. Do you have a best friend, maybe you could talk to his/her parents. Explain everything and they can guide you. But you definitely can't let this continue. Are there any resource officers at your school, you could pull one of them aside. Or another adult from a church or community organization you may be involved with.
Better yet just call 911 from a public phone if your to scared to call from home. You can't let this go.
2007-10-13 23:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by DAWN 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my frind had this hapen to her. dont tell your mother but call child care or talk to him. You need help and get him out your life. this is abuse and you need help.
And what does he do with the toy?
Spitting is for camels.
does your mother no?
get help!
talk to me. i mean add me!
where does he hit you?
has he left a mark? if so take pictures and show them to the police.
how long has this been going on for?
You need help (crys) (and i'm crying)
my friend was hurt so badly that she cant have children!
2007-10-13 23:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have to respond to one of the other writers.....
HOW DARE YOU DISMISS WHAT IS SAID!
If you don't believe it, why feel compelled to respond? Maybe if more people believed we wouldn't have as may rapists and child abusers out there!
You do need help..... Go to the police, your mom, neighbor, friend! Keep TALKING and TELLING till someone helps you.
Never stop talking.
If you don't, he WON'T stop!
2007-10-14 10:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has to stop , Your father have a sever mental problem Is cause by drugs or alcohol You are the only who knows But doesnt matter the reason it has to stop . Call the child protective service or at least tell you school principal
2007-10-13 22:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
you need to cut off his penis and start hitting him with that see how he likes it!
You need to go tell the school counselor and your dad needs to be fired arrested and butt f*cked in prison
2007-10-14 13:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-10-14 12:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by mary s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your counseler at school right away. You need to have this stopped. Where is your mother when this is going on? If the school doesn't do anything, then go to the cops and explain the situation to them, they will come and say something.
2007-10-13 22:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
tell someone right away your dad needs help maybe stay with a family member until he can get some prober help/meds in cases like this abuse escalades
2007-10-13 22:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋