I just hate and hate and hate my parents to death! I know all of you people think everyone hates their parents but I just hate them! What is their freakin' problem? I cant have fun anymore! They always spoil everything! They don't let me go to my friends house, to a concert, or even wal-mart!I'm a female I make good grades and what else do they want with me? All they do is trying to ruin my life! I tried being peaceful but I couldn't! Every time I see my parents I want the world to destruct or kill them and every human being on earth(even myself!). Ever since my grandma pass away they act more strict and lazy. And sometimes I get in trouble with the teacher because it was my parents responsibility to sign something and they left it somewhere else or don't do it at all! Every time I get good grades they don't even put effort into what they're saying. Sometimes I even think about being violent! And the only way to have positive attitudes are when I'm away from them.
2007-10-13 15:27:39 · 11 answers · asked by masami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't even have a life anymore! I feel like dying every time! I even hold grunges against them! I don't even think I have a family to begin with! I just don't like them at all! Help!
2007-10-13 15:31:10 · update #1
If I acted mature or not they still treat me the same. They're just too protective of me. Some of you already started thinking that I'm selfish and that I want everything that I want.But I'm not! After a fight between me and my parents, I'll start crying and saying to myself that they don't even care about my emotions. The more I get angry the more I think about killing. I even like watching violence ever since. I also like seeing blood. When I see people get hurt or something, I get excited. Sometimes I even think about flunking my classes, because I already know they don't care. Not to brag or nothing but I make mostly A's on my grade. When me and my parents get into a fight they even say that if they knew I was going to be like the way I am, they should have killed me while I'm still in my mom's stomach.Then I said why won't they kill me now then?because I don't need a life. Every time I say that they get even madder. I just don't like anything about them!
2007-10-14 14:28:04 · update #2
I don't even know how many times I got furious. All I know is that it's plenty of times. I just want to have a normal family. If u don't know I'm the oldest sibling and I'm in junior high. I have 3 little sisters and brothers. I just hate this family! Everyone always get on my nerves! And I mean EVERYONE! I been mad at my parents since 6th grade. I've been saying profanity a lot. I just can stand living in this life style anymore! The more I think about it the more I get angry. For some reason I don't care about anyone anymore, not even myself! I used to be joyful and happy all the time, but not any more! I hate it when adults says " When you're in your childhood, it's the funnest time in your life." I think that is just stupid. I don't want to live anymore! And I think life is a waste of time! No one means nothing to me! How many times I tried, I can't leave the hatred behind!
2007-10-14 14:43:22 · update #3
I also started liking red&black and also listening to rock and punk songs!
2007-10-14 14:57:03 · update #4
When they are truly gone I guarantee you that you will grieve and pray for a day when you could possibly see them again. Even thru what you are thinking now.. you will pray for one more day with them. GUARANTEED.
2007-10-13 15:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by mosaic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are right : most teens will be extremely angry with their parents at some time, but your problem is more than just a normal drama. I thought about how disappointed I was when I was your age and my mother would forget to sign my school papers, or give me money for the school bus, or even buy me clothes. I didn't understand until I was much older, living away from home, that she was depressed. That didn't make it okay, or undo any of the emotional damage she had caused, but I was able to move on with my life.
It is amazing to me that your grades are good, and even if your parents don't acknowledge your achievements, I can. I think it is amazing that you are doing well in school while living in a dysfunctional home.
Time will pass and you will graduate and leave home. You do have computer use, so all is not bad.
There have been many news stories in the last few years about teens going postal at school and home, and the end result was tragic and final. Your life at home is short-lived. Harming yourself or someone else is permanent solution to a temporary situation.
You have a positive attitude away from them, so you need to bide your time. Life is GREAT and you will have years and years of FUN when you are old enough to leave home.
2007-10-13 22:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by SpongebobRoundpants 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I totally get what you're saying, we all have felt the frustration of not being able to do what we want because someone else, a parent, a teacher, a boss, is preventing us. Part of growing up and being mature is learning how to deal with those emotions. Acting out and being resentful will never make anything better for you or your parents. If you truly feel you are being treated unreasonably you need to very calmly sit down with your parents and explain to them why you feel this way. Perhaps they don't even realize that they are doing it. You have to also consider their point of view and realize that they love you and are, hopefully, doing the best they can for you. Hang in there. Good luck!
2007-10-13 22:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by pearlyshine 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay.
So if your parents "forget" to sign a certain slip or loose it somewhere then my suggestion is, hold on to it. If they take things especially things that are due for a grade or just needed for school, YOU hold onto it... it's YOUR responsibility what happens to it. Keep it with you, and if your parents say... "ok give it to me, i'll sign it later" just tell them you'll hold on to it until they're available. Now if the problem is they're forgetting to or too lazy, then why not keep pesturing them about it? Eventually they'll get irritated and sign it. If they get upset, tell them that it's important it gets signed before a specific date and you've tried asking before patiently.
Don't get violent with your parents. That will just cause more confrentation. I certainly don't want to die... so lets not think that either! Your parents probably care for you more than you realize, parents don't personally try to destory our (meaning teenagers) lives by having limitations, they just love us. And honestly, this is an issue with ALL teenagers. It's even a issue with me! So why not have a heart to heart talk with your parents? Sit them down and ask if they can extend your boundries, what you can do to earn those privledges, why you can't have those privledges and if they trust you or not. Refrane from uneccessary face gestures/attitude/argueing/back-talking/yelling that stuff. It will not get you ANYWHERE.
If you're even THINKING about sneaking out, think again. If you ever got caught, you would completely loose your parents trust... and trust is NOT easy to earn back. You'll be stuck living like a child for the rest of your life with that kind of decision.
But most of all, remember... time will pass by faster than you think and you won't live with your parents forever. Keep to the good grades, and that's for certain.
2007-10-14 00:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are your parents living on the streets?Do they work and buy your clothes ,food and keep a place for you to live?
Do they beat you and curse you 3 times a day or more whether youve done anything wrong or not?
If you answered no to those questions then step back and watch your firends who get to do the things you dont get to do and see where they are in 5 years.I guarantee you will have a far different opinion of your parents in 5 yrs.Your life wont be over in 5 yrs and you wills till be young.Hang in there because they DO love you and would give their lives for you!
2007-10-13 23:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad died just a couple wks ago. i never had a good relationship w/ the man i barely new him. he was an addict of many sorts and wasnt in my life much. i hated him for never being there for me i hated him for leaving me i hated him for never doinganything for me growing up i always wish he would just die. despite all that im sad adn heartbroken that hes gone. of course my situation is a little different. c i no he and i can never have a real father/daughter relationship it is the one thing ive always wanted and i could never have. i always somehow thought hed grow up and want to b my father but since hes gone it means all those chances of that happening r also gone and it hurts so much. i regret wishing him dead i truly do and ur going to regret it also. someday ur going to c ur parents from a whole new perspective as i now c my father. hopefuly tho u can understand them before they r gone. i no now that my father HAD to stay away from me. it ws the best thing he couldve ever done for me. he new his addictions ruled his life and somehow he relized that the effects of him and his lifestyle would have been negative on me. i swear to u ullu nderstand it all someday. just give it some time. when u do ull love them for it. i love him so much noing that his own choice regarding me was the best choice (even tho growing up i disagreed). dont ever wish anyone dead. good luck w/ life. b patient things will turn around.
2007-10-13 23:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they care for you, thats why they dont let you run around going to concerts and friends houses by yourself. i know it seems like you hate them now, but you'll be happy later when you hear about unfortuante things happening to girls your age at concerts and stuff. force ur mom and dad to sign stuff be like: MOM PLEASE SIGN THIS PAPER RIGHT NOW, THANKS I NEED IT FOR SCHOOL TOMORROW. or have ur teacher call them.
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okay,so i read what you wrote now. honestly, i feel that way sometimes too... but just learn to live with them. if you can't then you need to call the police and have your self taken away to a foster home... then you'll know what it feels like to have no parents. i know it seems like a fun idea now, no rules no nothing. but honestly when you don't have someone protecting you at all, you'll really really regret giving up your family. if you have good friends, and a good understanding with your younger siblings, just remember and just wake up everyday of your life for THEM... even if you dont want to see your parents faces every single day of your life, live for your siblings and your friends. i can tell your going emo... honestly, ive seen kids go emo if they have a violent family or soemthing, yours doesnt seem very violent... just negative. get some counseling or something. and like i said earlier if nothing works for you, just rememeber...a few more years and you have your own independent life.
2007-10-13 22:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by mnmz4lyf 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think that they are griefing for your grandmother, or are you so selfish that you can only think of your own wants, and not what someone else may be going through. They might give you some freedom, if you acted more mature, and not so childish.
2007-10-13 22:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Have a long talk with them. they're too ******* strict. They have to know your not some little 6 year old anymore.
2007-10-13 22:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jhhuuu H 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
calm down youll get over it trust me im the same way just try to look at it from their point of view!
2007-10-13 22:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋