Lately Ive been having these thoughts about people that i know that are not straight. They are not thoughts in any sexual manner and i am not attracted or turned on in any way. i am straight and only interested in guys, but these thoughts will not leave my head. Everytime I think about it it makes me cringe and I am starting to get worried. What does it mean?
2007-10-13 16:13:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But that's the thing I am not curious and never have been. I have no interest in that kind of thing. I am only attracted to guys. It's gotten to the point where I dont want to go near any girl even if they are my friend because I dont want to look at them that way.
2007-10-13 16:22:32 · update #1
Ok I have two more questions : Where are the thoughts coming from if you never hanged around people like that?
and Will these thoughts ever go away?
2007-10-13 16:30:27 · update #2
Is it normal for your chest to get tight if you feel overwhelmed and stress about this? beacause all of this just has me scared, stressed, and freaked out all at the same time.
2007-10-13 16:42:11 · update #3
it sounds like it means u think it disturbing and some ppl are like that. like me im not against gays are anything but it really disturbs me when they kiss in public or something so pretty much ur straight
2007-10-13 16:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by bekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it! Everyone has "thoughts", and even dreams, and they don't mean anything. Some people describe it as a sliding scale - Super gay on one side of the scale, and hardly gay at all on the other side of the scale. Bi-sexuals would fall right in the middle. Nobody falls all the way to the right side or all the way to the left side. Everyone has a little bit of gayness in them, we all fall at a different place on the scale. (Think about it - you can tell when another woman looks "hot", right??) No big deal. Doesn't change who you are or what your sexual preference is.
2007-10-13 23:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by KristenCO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to normal. Most people have thoughts about any number of odd things, sexual things are common. It just happens and are natural. The more you try not to think of something the more you will think about it. So relax,thoughts are thoughts. Nobody will know what you are thinking any way.
2007-10-13 23:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to start looking into expanding your flannel shirt collection...LOL. Doesnt mean anything, perhaps they arent straight. It is normal to have an occasional thought or an interest in experimentation.
2007-10-13 23:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by MHnurseC 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're bi-curious? Some women are that way. There's nothing wrong with it. Don't go off the deepend though. You need to know yourself before you can get involved in the bi lifestyle.
2007-10-13 23:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by krollohare2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means you're curious and definitely normal to be feeling that way. everyone has thoughts like this at one point or another.
2007-10-13 23:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully it doesnt mean anything and You will go back to your normal self soon.
2007-10-14 00:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by cf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know what the thoughts are so it's hard to say.
2007-10-13 23:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by Dianne m 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means you're normal.
2007-10-13 23:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Paul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not sure because I have no clue what your thoughts are about.
2007-10-13 23:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by Jarritoco 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋