my man wont belive me when i tell him i wont leave him how do i make him understand that?????
2007-10-13 16:08:10 · 6 answers · asked by hallie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He obviously loves you so much and you are so special, he can't believe he deserves you and he is waiting for you to realise that and leave him. Lucky you, being so loved.
Give him time to get used to you being around all the time. So long as you are honest,contactable and not secretive, he will eventually understand that you are in it for the long haul.
You will have to be patient with him, but it will be worth it when he knows he can trust you. The relationship will blossom when this hurdle is overcome because you obviously love each other so much.
2007-10-13 16:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is one emotion that is complicated, easy , beautiful, ugly,sweet and bitter at the same time. Sometimes ,though, it can provoke feelings of insecurity like it seems to be doing in your case.While I don't know how long you guys have been dating or the depth of your feelings for each other, it would appear it has not been long or you guys don't talk well or something has occurred which has affected his trust in you.No matter the reason, if you want to stay together, you have to now talk; assure him that you love him and want to be with him.Tell him that you don't know the future and so you can not give him the kind of guarantee he is looking for and he just has to trust and believe in you since that is what love is all about.Good luck.
2007-10-13 23:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would he think you might leave him? have you cheated in the past? do you have a flirting problem? commitment problem? if it's a NO to those questions, then i dont' see why he's so worried unless A) he's really insecure and paranoid, and there might be a past or event in his life that is causing that, so that would be where to start or B) he's doing something wrong behind your back and subconsciencely he knows he doesn't deserve you.
2007-10-13 23:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by lilchikka2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make him do anything hun. actions sometimes speak louder then words. I tell my booyfriend that all the time but he's been hurt before by some turning their backs on him. all I can do is to keep letting him know I love him and love him unconditionally. he'll see through your actions you do Love him .. thats all you can do
2007-10-13 23:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by tammy s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him. Show him that you really care about him and that you will not leave him. Show him that he means the world to you, and that you would never trade that for anything or anyone. In reality, you don't have to show him, he should believe you if he really loves you, but if its so important for you, for him to believe you, just show him by actions, instead of repeating it to him over and over.
ps. When I say "show him" I dont mean you have to show him using any sexual activity or such as....
There is so many ways to show someone that you care about them a lot.
good luck ; )
2007-10-13 23:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. Let him hang out with friends, it sounds like you two need some trust made, maybe you need to be together more, or maybe he feels neglected. or something, you should talk to him. find out why he feels like you are gonna leave him.
2007-10-13 23:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by tiffany w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋