He says that when he tells another woman that he is dreaming about her or that he was with her last night it doesn't mean anything. He is just making small talk and he only means in thought.
2007-10-13 15:34:49 · 12 answers · asked by hotrod 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
do ya want to talk to me on IM and make him jealous?
2007-10-13 15:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Tim P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be more than jealous. If he's not cheating on you physically yet, he is blatantly flirting with her and it's heading in a nasty direction. A person can be emotionally unfaithful even it never progresses beyond that.
I used the instant messenger to cheat: it started out flirting and grew from there.
Be aware, it will end in tears if it doesn't stop now. And you can't make him stop, he has to do that willingly. He will only hide it if he doesn't want to stop.
Good luck, my thoughts are with you.
2007-10-13 22:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't end up like my friend and have the woman call your house. Evidently he had lied to the woman too. In most cases men lie about women they meet on the Internet and end up meeting them. I would have never thought this would have happened to my friend. If you have his password log on and tell the other woman the man she is talking to is married to you. If he gets mad then you will know there is more to it than what he says. Good luck....
2007-10-13 23:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by Fran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be jealous. Tell your husband if his small talk makes you uncomfortable. It's inappropriate for a married/committed man.
2007-10-13 22:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by fdm215 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him that u r jealous , so what about this idea, u and him talk through net , and do all things u and him want to do .
if not this idea, tell him that u r jealous so u would like to sit with him when he chat sometimes lol, or he need to make his chats less than usual
good luck
2007-10-13 22:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by michael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband shouldn't be talking to other women on instant messenger. PERIOD....NO EXCUSES.
2007-10-13 22:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by MsKenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be worried because not many guys have small talk like that. make up a fake s/n or something to try to see if he talks you like that but dont tell him its u.
2007-10-13 22:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by BeAcHBaBe1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.............I would wonder why he feels the need to speak to other women like that? Even if nothing has happened yet, it is very suspicious. Go to couples counseling and hide that computer for awhile.
2007-10-13 22:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by Leopardlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would'nt want my husband talking to some ***** I donnt know, and even if I did know her she still would'nt be talking to my husband you should cut it off before it go's too far. Is he lying about who she is? I want to kno where they met and how he knows her ect.
2007-10-13 22:47:42 · answer #9 · answered by ★ Ðяєäмíŋg Ôυт Łøυ∂ ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He tells another woman that he dreams about her? That's fishy...
2007-10-13 22:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by heatherdazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋