i wrote an email to someone i love and it was a nice message about how i felt, im just hoping that the message will no be seen as the wrong way.
2007-10-13 21:21:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Lol i didnt lie it was not like that it was a bout how i felt about something and i didnt want to send it but i hate leaving how i feel and things unsaid lol
2007-10-13 21:29:16 · update #1
Telling the truth always helps, its hurts most of the times initially but if you dont, it hurts for the rest of your life.
2007-10-13 21:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by jason 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If the truth is going to offend someone, hurt someones feelings, or cause problems, omission is a better alternative to lying. Lies are not necessary, and some things are just better off not said. When telling someone something, consider how that person might feel. There are times when someone needs to hear the plain hard truth, but careful consideration should always be employed since you cannot "unsay" words.
In a situation like you just described, it's very hard to say if your should have spoken out. It sounds like a matter of the heart... and strangers aren't the best judge of whether you should have spoken out of held your tongue. We know nothing about the situation or who was involved. Quick, uninformed answers are usually bad answers.
2007-10-14 10:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should.
Why lie?
If you lie, you will have to keep telling lies to cover the one before it up.
Thus in the end...you'll probably end up sticking your foot in your mouth anyways and blurting out the truth unintentionally anyways.
SO.......just tell the truth and be done with it, and avoid the dramatics of lying and being scandalous.
Now you can just send that person another kind message and just let them know that you hope they don't take what you had said before the wrong way.
Don't keep yourself guessing, just give that person a call and say what you need to say to them.
good luck.
2007-10-13 21:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How should we define LYING ?
One can lie by simply not telling the truth but we can also lie by omission.... omitting to volunteer the truth. -- lying to a friend by not volunteering some truth that we know. Does lying have to be only a positive act ( to TELL the truth) or also simply by not volunteering the truth ?
Imagine a world where we could NEVER, ever, conceal the truth ? Terrifying !!
2007-10-14 08:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by RED-CHROME 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A police officer pulls a guy over for rushing and has the following replace: Officer: would I see your driver's license? driver: i don't have one. I had it suspended when I were given my fifth DUI. Officer: would I see the owner's card for this motorcar? driver: that isn't any longer my automobile. I stole it. Officer: the automobile is stolen? driver: it really is top. yet come to imagine of it, i imagine I said the owner's card contained in the glove container at the same time as i become putting my gun in there. Officer: there's a gun contained in the glove container? driver: definite sir. it really is the position I placed it when I shot and killed the lady who owns this automobile and filled her contained in the trunk. Officer: there's a body contained in the TRUNK?!?!? driver: definite, sir. listening to this, the officer on the on the spot noted as his captain. the automobile become straight away surrounded by technique of police, and the captain approached the motive force to address the irritating situation: Captain: Sir, am i able to verify your license? driver: particular. the following that is. It become valid. Captain: who's automobile is this? driver: that is mine, officer. that is the owner' card. the motive force owned the automobile. Captain: might want to you slowly open your glove container so i can see if there's a gun in it? driver: definite, sir, yet there is no gun in it. particular sufficient, there become no longer something contained in the glove container. Captain: might want to you concepts establishing your trunk? i become instructed you suggested there's a body in it. driver: No situation. Trunk is opened; no body. Captain: i do not realize it. The officer who stopped you suggested you instructed him you probably did no longer have a license, stole the automobile, had a gun contained in the glovebox, and that there turned right into a useless body contained in the trunk. driver: Yeah, i will wager the liar instructed you i become rushing, too
2016-10-21 03:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,I appreciate the fact that u wrote what u felt even though U know that it could be sensed in a wrong way..But,I guess u can always clarify ur way to the one u love...But,lying just to impress ur love is actually wrong........I believe that u want to accepted as you are and not what ur love wants to to be..
So,Cheer Up!! Wish u Luck..........!!!
and I hope that the one u love will not take it in any wrong sense.....!!
2007-10-13 23:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ вμttεгƒlŷ ♪ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but a little white lie can make the difference between Euphoria and Tears and being tactless is really annoying.
2007-10-13 21:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by pop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
always dont tell the truth
a white lie is better
but in a relationship it is better to tell the truth
2007-10-13 21:42:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS (not yelling) be honest!!!
That way you won't have to remember which lie to cover.
If the message is seen the wrong way, you could explain what you meant :~)
2007-10-13 21:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, we should always tell truth
but sometimes a lie can also help us but not every-time
if u r in love u have to tell the truth
don't follow everything is fair in love
2007-10-13 23:13:03 · answer #10 · answered by vaibhav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋