The beautiful one are the hardest to forget.
2007-10-13 23:20:20 · 12 answers · asked by Who's On First? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My goodness. If its been 20 years and you still think about her in that way, maybe you need to locate her. It may be destiny. It could be that she is the one. Or it could just be fond memories and you just need to move on. Are you currently with someone? A lot of times the fact that we are alone makes us think of the good times with our past loves. Sometimes I do that. Lately a lot.
2007-10-13 23:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by Dat Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 69 years young and I can remember almost every girl I ever dated. Of course you only remember the good times but regardless you may always remember. I am still friends with GFs I had over 50 years ago and enjoy talking some about the times we spent together. But you never forget them so just savor the memories when they come to mind.
2007-10-13 23:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obsess much? You broke up 20 years ago for a reason. It wouldn't have worked out.
If you find yourself constantly thinking about her to the point where it's impacting your relationships now (like mentally comparing all of the girls or refusing to date someone because they aren't as pretty), then you should think about getting some professional help. You may want to get rid of any momentos or pictures as well.
2007-10-13 23:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that you want to forget her? I get the feeling that maybe you don't. Why don't you contact her and talk with her for a while if it's possible. It may help you resolve this issue so that you can move on in peace. Or it may lead to a renewed friendship. You'll never know if you don't try.
2007-10-13 23:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think Ashleys answer is pretty cool... Something I need to do as well...
But I dont think it matters that you still think about someone you knew 20 years ago, hell I still think of my first b/f ... It only matters if you become obsesive with it and cant control your life ... then if thats the fact .. seek help from a professional..
Good Luck!
2007-10-13 23:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by Inquiring Mind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe if something was meant to be it would've been. Twenty years is a long time. Bitter sweet memories can live on forever, but it's time to completey move on.
2007-10-13 23:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to forget someone or something in ur life start loving another .think in ur mind u r so lucky my missing. u will get the best in ur life
2007-10-14 10:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by varaprasad c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none im sorry to say. i havent seen mine after ten yrs and just thinking about.you start to ache in all the wrong places.
Ah the memories.
best way. pretend you have amnesia and ask her if she rememberd anything .
2007-10-13 23:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by nettie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to stop thinking or talking about her,, but it's nice to keep in touch with her too..and search for a girlfriend that can totally make your heart melt with her smile..
2007-10-13 23:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by leen311 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha...you can't...it never ever leaves your mind. so find a comfortable place in your head to keep her and live happily with it. that's what i had to do.....and it works.
2007-10-13 23:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋