Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

last year me and this guy (ricardo) were gonna go out, but he was sorta with someone and i was really sad so i just got over it and 2 months after that i went out with another guy (javi). the same day ricardo dumped his gf for me was when javi asked me out. he called me some mean things and we hadnt talked for a year. so the last month me and ricardo have been talking again and i kinda have some feelings for him again (we're both single)

the conflict:
*hes in the grade lower than me, and im about 7 months older than him
*my other guy friends like hate him
(ricardo and my guy friends dont hang out, from 2 different groups but some of my guy friends know him and hateee him)

what should i do? i dont like him alottt or anything but i have like a little crush on him..

2007-10-15 06:44:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my partner want to get married.

Looking for rough figures so we know how much to save.

Thanks

2007-10-15 06:41:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I was with my man since beginning high school (now im 20) and we had so many memories together and he recently heard that I cheated on him (which wasnt true) and he broke up with me when I came to his job this morning. I was a mess.. i was about to commit suicide and he told me to go ahead. He left and then I called my dad to come get me and now I'm home just a mess and I cant stop crying and I cant get help. I love him so much and he told me he will never be with me again and to stop calling him. Im mess, I cant even go to work to school... What helps get thru this? Thanks

2007-10-15 06:36:37 · 2 answers · asked by Krissy 2 in Singles & Dating

Did you feel good when you ex kept calling you for days, weeks, even months after you two broke it off? Did it give you an ego of some sort, that he or she was still trying to see or get back with you (even though you did not want them).

If so, why?

2007-10-15 06:34:24 · 5 answers · asked by no 3 in Singles & Dating

Ive been mates with a lad for13years now. I went out with him 3years ago for about 9months. It was never really serious and i did nothing more than kiss him. We remained very good friends and i speak to him all the time through texts and msn. I very rarely get chance to meet up with him, but hes having a party this friday and has invited me.... one problem, my boyfriend of 14months has a problem with it. He doesnt understand that were just mates nothing more. I understand he must have doubts coz this is an ex-boyfriend but he shud trust me, if any1 has reasons to doubt trust its me, as he cheated on me 4months ago. I really dnt wanna risk ma relationship but i dnt wanna lose my best mate. Plz Help... thanks in advance xxxx

2007-10-15 06:33:57 · 11 answers · asked by Claireluvsyaxx 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 06:32:40 · 31 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 06:31:38 · 12 answers · asked by Everand 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 06:31:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why does it always seem like when a relationship ends the guy moves on SO MUCH FASTER than the woman. It seems like the guy always gets another girlfriend ASAP. Why do men fall out of relationships and then JUMP right back into another one?

2007-10-15 06:29:21 · 22 answers · asked by ALeoStar 4 in Singles & Dating

I chose a really classy dress for my bridesmaids and everyone loved it! However when my maid of honor went for a fitting, she was actually bumped up 6 sizes because the dress runs small... I have a bigger girl in my bridal party and i'm afraid she may not be able to get the dress. How should I deal with this?
Me being a bigger girl as well, understands how she may feel if the dress doesn't go to where she needs it to go. It only goes up to a certain size..

The lady at the bridal store said "we can determine that when we bring her in for measurements" I guess im just trying to keep it less 'painful' for her. as i know how the whole fitting thing goes as well...

Any ideas? Should I just change the dress or what should I do?

2007-10-15 06:28:26 · 12 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

Just someone that you make eye contact with.

2007-10-15 06:28:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my fiance and I are trying to plan our wedding around our trip to disney world next year and make the time frames work. Our plan is to go to disneyworld for a week with some family. Then find a private beach somewhere close and a planner in the area that will put together something for us and help with ALL the datails. After the wedding we are planning to go on a cruise from there. Does anyone know the name of a company or someone in Florida close to Disneyworld that would be able to put this together and give some prices? Has anyone else been through thisand maybe willing to give a few tips?

2007-10-15 06:27:45 · 3 answers · asked by emmak8123 1 in Weddings

each other?

2007-10-15 06:27:35 · 12 answers · asked by Lady M 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been cheated on by men all my life there is nothing wrong with me i cook i go to work and im a good person i hate drama and im a rider for my man but now i have been dogged so much by men that im a lesbian now with a wife who loves me better thenany man has i dont think i will ever be with another man now i believe all men are doggs for sho'

2007-10-15 06:27:19 · 14 answers · asked by AISHA S 1 in Singles & Dating

Here is a little back story. I meet this girl at the casino, I didnt even talk to her i just wrote my name and number on a bingo card with the ink dabber. Walked up and set it in front of her, and walked away. 2 hours later i got a text message from her. She thought it was really cute what i did. We talked a little that night, last wednesday. We talked some friday. I asked if she had any plans that night. She said she was busy. So i told her to call me when she wasnt busy. she replied to that with "maybe I will :)". Then last night we talked about what we did over the weekend. Nothing big. So what should be my next move?

2007-10-15 06:26:46 · 6 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Singles & Dating

All I ever hear about is the horrible ones, and Im such a cynic, which im trying to change, but I have no references for it, so I was hoping you happy people could help me!

2007-10-15 06:25:34 · 17 answers · asked by Emmauk 2 in Singles & Dating

okay nive been talkin to this guy for about three weeks now and he says he dont want to get into a serious relationship wit me bcuz hes in 12 grade and hes about to live so i was cool wit it and i told him if it gets serious then we'll figure it out from there. that same day i told him that i found out he staarted going out wit someone else. i talk to him about it and he said he was sorry and he was going to make for it. and he said he was going to break up with her . whats up wit this

2007-10-15 06:22:03 · 6 answers · asked by Ms.TruBlue 1 in Singles & Dating

tell your friends something they dont want to hear...
or be nice and keep it to yourself.?
hummm

2007-10-15 06:21:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok... my g/f just posted up a question about "Is this considered cheating when...."
Thank you for all the answers. Some of you guys did say that I was cheating on her, and some said I was not.

Hear my side of the story.

I had dinner with my friend/client without telling her (my gf) because she always whines and gets mad. I knew she would be mad so I didnt tell her. I offered dinner (my client/friend) because I just wanted to be nice to her and because she is my client and bought my product. Yes, I dressed up to meet her. Why? because I wanted to respect her as my client.

After dinner, I spoke to my Gf and told the truth. I dont like keeping secrets. I dont know how she (friend) feels about me but as long as I think of her as friend, i believe its not cheating. Besides, my friend do know that I been dating for 5 years.

I believe cheating is when touching or more gets involved. I touched her by shaking her hand.

is this cheating?

2007-10-15 06:18:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 06:17:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i just got a bf today, and he is great, and i do not want to screw up my relationship with him, so could you give me any tips, and what to do and not to do and any other things that you feel would be helpful, i waould really apreciate it

2007-10-15 06:15:02 · 6 answers · asked by The bored and hyper one 3 in Singles & Dating

My grandma/mother(she raised me) died recently and I need some coping techniques. HELP! I am not taking it well.

2007-10-15 06:13:53 · 36 answers · asked by nessa913 4 in Family

i waited through four years of highschool until i finally went out with this girl that i had had my eye on. When we were finally going out, she said that girls didnt want to date me because i wasnt an asshole, and even she was weird about dating me because i wasnt an asshole. When will girls stop being confusing?

2007-10-15 06:13:50 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 5' 3" tall, just dyed my hair brown, i have an amazing personality and an average body. It just seems like guys are only interested in me for eveything else except my company. I dont wear slutty clothes or a ton of make-up.. im just myself and guys seem to think that im all about makinout and hookin up.. how can i change this!? ahh.. why cant guys like like me for me

2007-10-15 06:13:46 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica 3 in Singles & Dating

is it right which one would you pick arrange or love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-15 06:12:47 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you really are thinking about going back to the EX you broke up with when you wre 15 because your parents made you because they thought you were to young to date at the time is it wrong

2007-10-15 06:10:48 · 2 answers · asked by JUGGALO 1 in Singles & Dating

Just a gentle reminder from a lady who just returned from visiting my 82 year old dad in the hospital.He suffered a stroke on Friday,and looks so frail and helpless laying in the hopital bed.I recall growing up how strong and vital he always was,and well...sorry,gotta go now,I am going to cry again...

2007-10-15 06:10:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am in need of a girl, age to be 18 to 25 buth some one apere as 20 while she is 35 when isee such person what will i do?because it is painfle for some one to betray another one i can remember the golden rull from, which says what ever u want others to do to u, u likewise do them. but i found out that people dosnt have regarde for others thise days.what do u like to say on this matter?

2007-10-15 06:09:43 · 4 answers · asked by chidubem e 1 in Singles & Dating

Please only answer this if you have or had a teenage daughter.

My best friend and I both have 14 year old daughters. They are freshmens in high shcool and are very close. My problem is that my daughter gets upset with me because I'm not as open minded as her friends (my best friend) mother. She lets her daughter go to the tanning bed daily and she is currently dating a 17 year old senior at the high school. She has been allowed to run around town with her 19 year old brother and several other 19 year old boys, which by the way a couple of them have been intrested in her and she also says they are hot all the time. She has her own myspace page and a cell phone. Ok so, I will not let my daughter do any of the above. Am I being to protective or is my friend being too easy with her daughter?

2007-10-15 06:09:22 · 33 answers · asked by Alliance Kicks Horde Butt 5 in Friends

She is 35 and gave me her number last Friday, she came over on Thursday and nothing happened between us. I was thinking about making a move on her, but I didn't get the right vibe. We were talking about porn and wet dreams she has had, but we weren't talking about it for that long. Was that a sign that she likes me? She seems very friendly, so that leads me to belive she wants me. What 35 year old woman gives a 22 her number? after only knowing her for a week?

2007-10-15 06:08:48 · 12 answers · asked by devil boy 61 1 in Singles & Dating