I was with my man since beginning high school (now im 20) and we had so many memories together and he recently heard that I cheated on him (which wasnt true) and he broke up with me when I came to his job this morning. I was a mess.. i was about to commit suicide and he told me to go ahead. He left and then I called my dad to come get me and now I'm home just a mess and I cant stop crying and I cant get help. I love him so much and he told me he will never be with me again and to stop calling him. Im mess, I cant even go to work to school... What helps get thru this? Thanks
2007-10-15 06:36:37 · 2 answers · asked by Krissy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to be honest, I myself am a bit confused by what you wrote. I'm having trouble believing you that you didn't cheat on him because of what seems to be the grave amount of guilt your displaying... (over something you say never happened)
In any case, I wasn't there, and I don't know what did or didn't happen. So I'll answer your question as you presented it.
If you in fact did not do anything with anyone else besides your man EVER, than shame on him for believing anyone else over YOU the one who loves him more than anyone else.
You cant make him believe anything he doesn't want to, but you need to stand your ground if you know what the truth really is. (even if he doesn't).
Simply put, I was in your situation once (some girl made it up because she wanted us to brake up because she was inlove with my BF) and when he asked me I said "No - I didn't" well he got all mad and didn't talk to me and I said "F*** that. I've got nothing to hide, if he doesn't want to believe me, that his *** damn well doesn't diserve me!"
and what do you know, less than a week later he came to his senses and apologized, begged me to forgive him, and cut that lying ***** off.
If your word is bond, than **** the nay sayers. You know the truth and that's all that really matters.
Good Luck
2007-10-15 06:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by *Mrs. Butler* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him.
If he will not listen to the truth you are telling--he is not worth spending your life with.
Find some one who will trust you.
2007-10-15 13:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋