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If it has to do with STDs or pregnancy, what about if STDs didn't exist and pregnancy for whatever reason was not a possibility for her? Would you still think it is wrong?

2007-10-15 08:38:38 · 53 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Singles & Dating

I see black guys with white girls all the time, but rarely do I see a black girl with a white guy. Personally, I just don't find black guys attractive, is that weird?

2007-10-15 08:38:24 · 14 answers · asked by kunst 4 in Singles & Dating

what i mean is that you get married before having a child?
what are the importants of doing so first?
what would you do?

n e other concerns and answers greatly appreciated! thanks

2007-10-15 08:38:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my common law husband and i have discussed buying our own house for a long time. Now the time has come where we both want out of our neighbourhood. He likes the idea but lately he is turning on me telling me what i need to give up and what i need to stop doing in order to afford it. What about him we spend 200 a month on beer and I want cable that costs 60 is this fair. He is trying to control me and I don't know how to let him know that he is hurting and not letting me be my own person. I love him and don't want to leave but there are times when i don't know what else to do.

2007-10-15 08:36:24 · 14 answers · asked by jennbabe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, check this out. We were only dating for a few months. We got into a "discussion" , and needless to say, he stopped calling. Here's the thing, I finally gave in and texted him to see what was the problem. Under the circumstances of that morning, i couldnt be on the phone. Needless to say, he text me back two hours later stating, " I THINK WE SHOULD STOP SEEING EACH OTHER". Is that acceptable??? Even without an explanation.

2007-10-15 08:35:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found a guy that i liked but things diddent work out...he wasent like me he diddent want the same things or he diddent love like me or anything like that but now i found a guy thats exactaully like me and every way and i know he loves me but i dont think i love him. I dont understand i was looking for the perfect guy and i found him but i still dont want him whats wrong with me?

2007-10-15 08:34:54 · 23 answers · asked by mazz 1 in Singles & Dating

I've just bought a gorgeous red dress to wear to the wedding of a friend of my boyfriend - only to learn that the bride is wearing red! I know the etiquette about not wearing white so you don't upstage the bride - do you think this applies to other colours too? My dress is knee-length and lightly patterned, so not "gown-like", although I don't actually know how formal the bride's dress is.

2007-10-15 08:34:12 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

who is most likely to cheat first......... is there any research on this

2007-10-15 08:28:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have stayed married for the 2-3 years for the children. Now, I am becoming increasingly irritable and really want to be free and unaccountable to anyone. I can forgive him for the past, emotional/verbal abuse, but not while still living with him. He doesn't want to separate. But i see no other options. What should i do?

2007-10-15 08:28:31 · 23 answers · asked by tired 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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So Saturday I went with three of the four bridesmaids in my wedding to pick out a dress. The fourth one came down with a cold and cancelled the day before. The other girls put their money down but the store will not order them until the last girl comes in to get measured.

I e-mailed the fourth girl with the absolute latest she can go in, nicely explaining the situation. She writes back that she is sick and she doesn't know when she will be able to go because she is going on vacation soon. At first I thought, ok because she is sick and still has a few weeks before she really needs to go.

Now I found out that not only did she go to a concert the night she was too "sick" to go. And she thinks I am being "selfish" because I want her measurements in by mid-November. Any later and the dress won't come in on time, and not just her dress - the other girls dresses too. I am trying so hard not to be Bridezilla, do you think I'm being selfish?

2007-10-15 08:28:06 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I left my hubby of 23 years and moved to Maui. I dated for a while and finally met this great guy. We have so much in common and have a great time together. I moved in 4 months ago. This month we will be together for 1 year. The sex is absolutely fantastic but it is always SEX. Not making love. No affection. And my guy is not at all affectionate. If I want ANY affection I have to go to him. I have to hug him or kiss him or touch him. AND I ALWAYS have to say "I LOVE YOU" then he will say "I love you too". But he will hardly ever say it first. When I try to talk to him about it he saays "Here we go"!! "I am REALLY happy, happier than I have ever been in my life, if you can't accept me the way I am and I don't make you happy then you should not be with me". WOW!!! What do I say to that? I REALLY miss hugging, carressing, kissing etc. AND... I keep myself in great shape. Flat tummy, tan, toned, clean and smelling good. Most nights he just rolls over without a word

2007-10-15 08:27:52 · 13 answers · asked by leototally 1 in Singles & Dating

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My boyfriend has been honest from the beginning about his Oedipus complex, but lately it's getting out of hand. He wants me to dress in his mother's old clothes, and last night he called me "Judy" (that's her name) while we were making love. What should I do?

2007-10-15 08:26:08 · 13 answers · asked by mutterhals 3 in Singles & Dating

There's a guy who I'm pretty sure likes me and is wanting to ask me out. However, he's morbidly obese! Now before you start judging me, let me just say I have gone out with guys who are overweight, and also guys who are underweight. NONE of that is an issue! :-) I don't expect guys to have perfect bodies, mine certainly isn't perfect.

However, this guy truly is an example of morbid obesity. He's only about 5'6" and looks like he weighs at least 250 pounds, probably more. He even has trouble walking (he waddles instead of walking) and can barely sit in a standard chair.

Being overweight or underweight does not turn me off, but morbid obesity does. I'm sorry if that offends anyone, but I know I speak for most people (whether they admit it or not) that morbid obesity is definitely a turn-off.

I just wondered if I should use one of those stupid fibs like "Sorry, I'm busy" or "I'm already seeing someone" if he asks me out, or if there's ANY tactful, unhurtful way to be truthful w/ him?

2007-10-15 08:24:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just had cyber sex 2 months ago, and she hasnt had her period...could I be preggerz?

2007-10-15 08:22:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

just tell me the truth it wont hurt. just say so.

2007-10-15 08:22:04 · 38 answers · asked by brianna_flwr 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother out of the blue calls me and says he met a girl 2 weeks ago and now she's pregnant. What's worse is the idiot believes her and thinks it's his. (Do the math.. they first had sex a week ago) It's not possible for her to be having symptoms so early! Anyways she insists on getting to know me and.. He just told me this today!! To buy me time I said let me soak in the news and give me a call when she knows for sure she's pregnant. He wants me to be her friend and all buddy with her... but I just want to yell at her and call her a conniving little slut for trying to trick my little brother. He says since he got her pregnant, he's going to marry her. Get this the girl is 6 yrs his senior with 4 kids already...UGH!!!. So I just told him not to do anything rash. Just be careful.. but what I really wanted to say is, "what are you a moron?..you don't know this girl! She may be pregnant from someone else and trying to pin it on you. Should I say what's on my mind.. or let him find out?

2007-10-15 08:21:37 · 7 answers · asked by ******* 5 in Family

Finally split up this weekend, after 23 years. He hasn't worked for 3 years and now he's not talking to me. I've done everything and continue to do it all. Why is he so mad?

2007-10-15 08:21:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

But now we have all the respect have of the time.. but im glad that we have the right to vote... And it shows the men that they dont have to do everything.

2007-10-15 08:20:14 · 15 answers · asked by mizz glamorous 1 in Singles & Dating

I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND BUT I AM BORED WITH HER. SHE DOESNT PLEASE ME EVERY WAY I NEED TO BE PLESED. I HAVE A FREIND AND SHE HINTS ALL THE TIME THAT SHE CAN OFFER WHAT IS MISSING BUT SHE IS FRIENDS WITH MY G/F HOW DO I TAKE THIS FROM "JUST KIDDING" TO SWAPPING BODILY FLUIDS?

2007-10-15 08:19:57 · 12 answers · asked by newto413 2 in Singles & Dating

she threw me in jail on false stuff i have been with my husband for 6 yrs his daughter will be 8 next month .her mother still can't get over it . i am gonna have a nervous breakdown i can't deal with this anymore ...

2007-10-15 08:16:50 · 11 answers · asked by missprisss 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know I made a dumb mistake when I was young and I repent. My partner finds it really important to have sex after marriage and it would be of a great disappointment to tell him that I am not a virgin. At the same time I would feel wrong of lying to him but I would feel even worst if I didn't had this surgery cause then he would find out that I am not a virgin. Do you understand me? So what do you think, should I get this surgery or not or do you think its too risky?
Thanks for the help.

2007-10-15 08:11:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 08:11:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 08:06:49 · 20 answers · asked by SofTBaLl BaBE 12 2 in Singles & Dating

hey so me and my girlfriend are making out and i start rubbing her down there....she doesnt mind, in fact her breathing got heavier for couple minutes...but shes never had an orgasm, and i dont think she did when i started for her....i want to kno the best way to give her an orgasm with my hands...thanks guys

2007-10-15 08:03:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 08:03:08 · 5 answers · asked by portugalparasempre92 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 07:54:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like it when a bloke wolf whistles at me cos it makes me feel good-looking.(as long as they arnt weird peado men) i dont get why some women dont like it!

2007-10-15 07:53:43 · 29 answers · asked by adelle 1 in Singles & Dating

You know, hubby and I have been married for over 17 years and lived in the same house with the same address that is listed in the phone book for all of our married years. Once again, one of my cousins is getting married and we did not get an invitation mailed to us, but rather we were added (& Family) on my parents invitation.

You know, this is really starting to bother me. First off, my mother never remembers to tell us. The only reason I found out is because my parents own a store which hubby works at and he found the invitation. And second, we are grown adults that DO NOT live with my parents.

How do you feel about this practice? I am just getting sick of not formally being invited! Besides, mom threw away the inside envelope that would list who was invited and she cant remember if it said & family or not. I am close to my cousin so I know he wouldnt leave us out intentionally.

2007-10-15 07:52:04 · 24 answers · asked by MyKidsMom 3 in Weddings

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